The Only Dating Advice you Will Ever Need to Hear ✨Feminine Dating Secrets✨

I am a 26 Y/O man and I have stopped dating for the next 6 months. I want to have a nice career and feel more comfortable with my self. Dating is marginally overrated by social media and people. Update: I upgraded my job $10k+ and now at %75 for my apartment down payment.

I'm so grateful for women like you, who elevate others instead of fueling hatred and nonsense competition. What an absolute muse!

As a guy, let me try to help. Secure commitment up front. Period. No excuses. If you participate in hookups or situationships, especially if you sleep together on the first date or if he hits you with the “hey big head, come over” at odd hours of the night and you still do it, you have to take a step back and re-evaluate your behavior. In my experience, I always say up front that I want things casual and take things slow, but the women pretend to go along with it until they catch feelings and start badgering me about a relationship. A degree of accountability has to take place or you will continue to chase dudes who aren’t interested and thinking you can change his mind all because he’s “so hot, omg” Secure commitment up front. If Brad or Chad or Tyrone doesn’t want the same things as you, don’t sleep with him. Only entertain men who take you seriously. You can’t hookup and then expect a guy to take you seriously. PS: Your advice is pretty solid for the most part. I like seeing women holding other women accountable. It’s severely lacking in current times. Keep up the good work.

Fortunately I have discovered that it’s good to keep all aspects of my personality regardless of what society says because I’m awesome.

Wow! I appreciate your wise words. Healthy, feminine, but at the same time grounded, strong and firm. 👏🏻

where was this video ALL MY ADULT LIFE!?! the hermes comparison and the hunting /conquering for men mind is blown why did i not understand this earlier? omg i love you and your amazing content so much, THANKS A MILLION!

A loving relationship is one in which the loved one is free to be himself — to laugh with me, but never at me; to cry with me, but never because of me; to love life, to love himself, to love being loved. Such a relationship is based upon freedom and can never grow in a jealous heart.❤❤

Thanks for the video. The Five Things That Helped me Attract My Dream Partner were: 1) Learning to practice self compassion 2) Learning to be more authentic 3) Putting myself out there and committing to learn as much as I can about the person in front without allowing my judgements to take control 4) Having fun whilst dating 5) Learning to have continue with my own life whilst dating and not making it my sole priority.

I want to add to a point on being a "good girl". As a guy I want someone who has their own life and is able to set boundaries. For example if a guy asks a women to go over at 10 pm I think it is super attractive to be able to explain how that is inconsiderate and creepy. I think it is manipulative to artificially create this. I don't agree with having "goddess" vibes because that brings a level of entitlement. Instead evaluate how you are being treated and know you have intrinsic self worth and be able to know and honor your boundaries. Going out of the way to be convenient is what you do for someone you have a stronger bond with and not someone you are just getting to know. I also would not call anyone a loser. That is really judgmental towards many guys. I would instead replace that word with men who lack self confidence and self love.

It felt like a big sister talk, thank you ✨

Really liked the video. Especially cause there wasn't any unnecessary bla bla you brought things straight to the point and explained everything so well. Impressed by you being so articulate 😊 ❤loved the Hermes example. Such a good way to explain it😊👌

This was amazing!!! ❤ Could you do a video on maintaining that self worth and dynamic when in a long term relationship/marriage???

Loved the tip “show don’t tell”

I really like the set boundaries with short sentences advice!

Lots of great advice for a pretty short video. This was very well organized, to the point but also very descriptive. I can't say if it'll produce an immediate result in me but the Hermes bag analogy really put things into perspective. I've very much struggled with seeing my worth and if I'm honest, I think even men I've dated have wondered why I've gone for them, only to realize I have low self worth and use that against me by treating me any which way.

Not interested in being in a relationship, but a lot of this advice applies to friendships and chasing other people to be friends with.

Thank you so much for this video. I recently dumped and i understand after this video that i was really ok with him not texting and everything. I always said yes to what he likes to eat. I really took 😅 a huge burden on me. I think i can be back to my previous self being always confident on myself.

i have a very anxious attachment style and have watched a lot of these videos. The Hermes analogy is SO GOOD!!

Every second of this video is amazing ! I love it, thank you so much for talking with so much clarity 🙏🏻😇

I’ve been following your channel for years and it’s one of my favourite safe place on the internet for sure. However I don’t completely agree with your last comment “show don’t tell”, because I truly figured it’s way more complicated to make sure your partner understand yourself when you don’t articulate your thoughts with words. Plus I am convinced we need communication all along a relationship and not only to address an issue, though this comes from my experience in a long term relationship whereas it seemed like you were talking about newish relationships, I don’t really know!