Becoming WHOLE again AFTER BETRAYAL

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The funny thing is, Betrayal never comes from your enemies.

It's knowing you were were never truly loved.That in itself is betrayal.

You never lose friends, you only gain strangers. My heart aches for all of us who had to find this out.

It’s falling in love with someone that never existed I find the hardest part. It almost seems pointless but hurts so much. The way their mask falls when they no longer need you is shocking. They go from almost obsessed to stone cold. That betrayal is harsh.

Their betrayal is devastating and feels like being swept away by a tide. We're not the same anymore.

If you would dupe or betray a person who trusts you, that doesn't have anything to do with them being a fool. It means that they trusted you more than you deserved to be trusted.

“We are never responsible for our own betrayal”

My husband of 33 years, pretending to be a family man, ran a church, was living a whole double life of the worse kind that I knew nothing about. It's the element of being blindsighted that is trauma betrayel.

I’m screwed. Both my parents were narcissistic and even psychopaths, my two siblings also turned out like that. This pattern has followed me my whole life also with friends and boyfriends. I am definitely a survivor. I’m broke now but after all I’ve broke the pattern just by becoming a psychologist, having a bachelor degree in comparative literature together, yoga teacher and all the other courses I took to educate myself. They have nothing. But not only that - I manage to stay sane and empathetic and loving and LONGING FOR LOVE MORE THAN ANYTHING AS I ALWAYS BELIEVED IN LOVE. Even though I’m alone and I’ve been alone my whole life, God was with me. I never became evil and vicious. It’s a miracle.

They never admit they betrayed you

I’ve been betrayed by so many in such harsh ways that when I come across a kind stranger for a brief moment, I eventually wind up tearing up. So embarrassing.

I never thought in a million years I was sleeping with the enemy

You are such an angel to those who have gone through this! Mine started in infancy , I tried to get help to no avail. I am now 70, the only way to feel safe is to be alone. I appreciate you so much!❤

Forgiveness DOES NOT mean reconciliation.

Trust and loyalty is the rock we stand on in relationships. Betrayal is like having the ground under your feet disappear ... After they told you it was rock solid... And you gets blamed for it.

The first betrayal...presenting themselves as normal.

I agree it’s the behaviour that’s betrayal. I can’t stand it when ‘life coaches’ and social media ‘gurus’ talk about oh it’s how you respond to an event that is the trauma. It’s like uh no, it’s not my ‘response’ , it’s their harmful behaviour. Thank you Dr Ramani ❤

I left my family behind many years ago. Healthiest move I ever made.

Betrayal by a parent is so destabilizing. We have to find a way to take the life that was always meant to be ours. We don't belong to anyone. This is our life and I finally know I don't have to feel guilty for living it. Thank you. ❤