This is how to love.

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Published 2018-09-04
What is love? and How do I know? Where can I learn... What is my love? What is God's Love, and what's the difference? Inspired by the many implications of Jesus' commandment to love one another. What is love? And how do I know.

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Video Transcript:

I love I you.

now before you laugh or make fun of me, or just think I'm weird,

let me tell you what I mean by that first.

I don’t mean it in some fake, warm and fuzzy, sentimental kind of way.

And I’m not saying it just to be nice, or to look good, or to get you to like me.

What I mean is, at the very least, I only want what is good for you.

At the very most, I mean, i'll give myself, my life, in any way I can, for your good.

And I don’t care how I feel, or how I look, or what Im getting out of it,

or if I feel like it or not.

Love doesn't go this way.

Only this way.

And who are you?

Well you could be anyone.

my friend, my family, my spouse, person I like.

well thats easy, anyone can love the people they like.

What about the person I don't like, the person who doesn't like me, the person nobody likes,

what about the person I totally disagree with, the person who's completely different from me, there person I want to hate, the person everyone hates, the person who repulses me.

DOESN'T matter.

Love doesn't pick and choose who to love, just like the sun doesn’t pick and choose who to shine on, it just shines.

And what is your good?

Well it's all those little things that are gonna help us find the one thing that we all want, that we’re all searching for,

happiness.

as much as we can find here in this life, but more importantly, the full happiness that we can only find in the next life.

and I'll love you no matter what you do,

but that doesn't mean I’m going to love everything you do.

Love has to be tough, sometimes even fierce.

If you do anything that's gonna harm, impede, poison, delay or divert your good,

or the good of anyone else's,

I have to stand against it, not you.

Even if it's awkward, even if it's unpopular, even if it's gonna turn you against me,

for a little while.

But even when love is tough,

Love is always patient.

That's why we have a whole lifetime.

love is always gentle, kind, tender, loving,

never pushy, preachy, pointing fingers, rigid or mean.

and I don’t care what you’ve done, or how big you've screwed up, or how vast our differences are, or if your life is a giant, global sized disaster.

love is bigger than all these things.

And I don't care how worthless, or flawed, or unlovable, or insignificant, you think you may be.

love breaks through all these.

and if you get hurt, which we do,

or get into trouble, which we do,

or get beat up by the world, which we will.

and you're tired, and angry, and bitter, and miserable, and scared, LIKE THE REST OF US,

and feel like you’re, drifting all alone in a sea of, suffering…

ill suffer with you.

and if we disagree and get into those epic fights, which we will,

and even if you betray me, and laugh at me, and make me look stupid,

and walk away a thousand times,

Ill forgive you, a million times,

because nothing that could ever happen in this tiny little universe,

could ever be more important to me than you.

Not even myself.

This is what I mean when I say I love you…

but this is not my love…

my love is weak, and self-centered at best.

this is his love.

and he said, he commanded,

go out there and love one another as I loved you.

so I'll say it say again even though I know i'm gonna fail at it a million times today.

[I love you

All Comments (21)
  • "Love doesn't pick and choose who to love just like the sun doesn't pick and choose who to shine on "🤞
  • @Fyrex52
    I lost my religious gf to cancer a few months ago. I found this video in her YouTube Playlist and now I'm crying.
  • So many people associate love with their feelings. It's easy to love someone on a good day, but love is choosing to stay and love somebody even on the days you don't feel like it or the days they don't seem so loveable. Love is absolute loyalty... it's a commitment to treating someone with the same respect or the desire to do right by them in spite of your feelings or how they might make you feel from one day to the next. We are all human. We all have bad days and choosing to be with someone through the good and the bad days is love. It's an action, a choice... not a feeling. It's resisting the feelings that make you want to leave or get even with them in an argument because you understand feelings are fickle. It's more about seeing the bigger picture and the long term goals rather than focusing on a miniscule fight or a fleeting feeling. It's understanding problems are always going to exist and not expecting perfection from another person or a relationships. It's holding your tongue and laying down your weapons. Let's face it, life is hard enough... love is a safe place where you don't have to fight.
  • @milindrathod9603
    Am 23 and I realized its my first time hearing " I love you " from someone . Thanks man <3 .
  • @Haider.T.V
    "Love is tough ,but love is also patience" this line bro..
  • @ani9395
    God wanted me to find the real meaning of love that's why i found this masterpiece
  • "I have died everyday waiting for you, darling don't be afraid, I have loved for a thousand years, I'll love you for a thousand more "
  • @treypope6908
    This video is 4 years old and still changing lives. That I thank you for man. Much love
  • @itsjustsam127
    1 Corinthians 13: 4-5 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast , it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.❤
  • As someone who doesn’t cry often, this really got to my heart. Thank you, and may the Lord bless you.
  • @kool-ala4351
    Y’all notice that this video is suppose to be a loop… it makes sense since love is a constant battle we Christians must face.
  • @BobbyPaws
    I started breaking down in tears after you've said, "I'll suffer with you." It sounded so calm and yet it felt like a very powerful message that reach so deep in my soul. Thank you, I haven't cried for some time.
  • @aliceforever155
    I did not realize it was a christian video at first, I thought „this love perfectly describes God!“ but didnt realize, when I did I smiled so hard!!
  • @11domerfan
    I first saw this video back in August. Five months later I try to live each day for God. I owe so much to you for making this and to God for putting it on my path, for this video was what started my journey back to Him. Thank you. Praise be to God!
  • @Mindmartyr
    This explains why you should love your enemies. This channel is criminally underrated.
  • Every time I see a video from this channel, I am so amazed at the quality of the content and the message that comes across.
  • @LividMedusa
    I am 31 years old. I was saved this year. 2024. Praise Him. I love you God. Thank you for calling to me. I am here. I hear You.
  • @BeHappyWithUrLife
    God shows up, 5 years ago he allowed you to make this, and today it has reached me, someone suffering, someone deeply hurt by the world but someone who has faith. Thank you, and Thank You Lord God.
  • @mxrikaa
    1:35 ''Love doesn't pick and choose who to love just like the Sun doesn't pick and choose who to shine on. It just shines.''