right person/wrong time

The timing of this is LITERALLY a personal attack. Well played.

I don't think I could go through this five more times

"The important thing is that you tried, you were on this earth to connect under the circumstances you did your best" yuppp that hits beyond different

watching this video every day because it makes me cry. it just hurts so much. but also, i’m so proud of myself. for really truly loving someone, for finally letting myself be vulnerable again, and for being everything that person could want in a partner. i tried so hard, cared so much, and did my absolute best to show someone how much they mean to me. i truly did my best. is a relationship what they need in their life right now? no. am i in pain every day? yes, but after losing my best friend to heroin in 2016, i hadn’t had a single close relationship with another person, platonic or romantic. i have a lot of healing and work to do, but i finally feel worthy of love again, and i finally feel like i actually deserve the work it takes to get better. it’s going to suck, it’s going to hurt, and it’s going to take a long time, but i don’t think i’m fundamentally broken anymore, and i do finally think i deserve to heal. thank you for this video :)

“Under the circumstances you did your best, and I’m proud of you” thanks now I’m crying

Everyone says it, but it really is interesting how perfect his timing is.

this video is disgustingly accurate… This year on valentines day it became clear that we wont be together and since then I‘ve had a lot of time to sit back and reflect on my behaviour. This whole thing started almost a year ago in April and before that I‘ve went through similar experiences with other people. This time, I thought, would be different, this time, I thought, it would work out. Well it didnt. And it hurts a lot. Like a lot. Ive been in a pretty depressed state since and trying to change my view on romance and relationships. Who knows maybe I‘ll manage to grow as a person and hopefully not repeat the cycle in the future. Thank you for this video, it really touched my soul.

I can't belive how such a short video can condense all of what I'm feeling right now... thank you for making it. Thank you, it arrived exactly when I needed it.

Whoever is reading this, do not share this video with them. They won't suddenly change their mind, it is better like this. Stop hurting yourself, please. Give it some time, there are better days ahead now that you've gotten to know yourself better. Also please remind me that I said this, cause I'm gonna need to read it a couple times this month

as someone at the end "acceptance" phase, I've started to cry a lot more, not out of desire or due to the ache that will always be there, but out of the contentment of having experienced them in the first place.

Got together at 17 got married at 21. I used to think it was what I had to do if I wanted kids early. but I realized too late that the person you have kids with matters more than a time line you created for yourself. 23 now (no kids) and the mess I have to clean now is overwhelming Don’t rush into things please Especially when it comes to the person you spend your life with

It's been 4 months. I don't have the energy to write the rest

If I had the chance to go back and do it all again knowing this was how it was going to end. I would do it in a heartbeat, just for the chance to be with you again.

"Meeting the wrong person at the right time means that you are ripe for real relationship, but you are mistaking the identity of the person to whom you are attracted. This can lead you astray and cost you a great deal in terms of time and energy." Relationships and Higher Purpose by MV Summers.

It felt so perfect and it fell apart so fast....i miss her

Distance & time away from them allows you to heal & learn & grow to become wiser so hopefully you dont make the same mistakes of your past.. If some is truly meant to be in your life.. you can never loose them If someone is not meant to be in your life.. they'll only be in it for a short season to teach you valuable life lessons.

I think the crushing feeling of inadequacy hurts the most when someone slowly pulls away then eventually cuts you off when they feel good enough to do it. You didn’t get the chance to pre adjust while they did. It’s hard, but the feeling of getting over them and moving on is really lifting. Might take months and years but eventually everything is ok :)

“This exact situation will happen to you five more times before you die,” is one of the most dreadful and beautiful concepts I have ever heard. Thank you. 🖤

This video feels like an important yet harsh lesson but at the same time a warm comforting hug, an ode to acceptance and the idea that it will get better

First few times this video made me emotional, now I just smile a bit.