Would You Consider Getting Back Together? | {THE AND} Simone & Charlie

Our story runs deep! Couldn’t get it all out on here lol

Clarity always comes after the break up...

Whew!
This really resonated with me.

I went through something similar with my ex-girlfriend. Once I was finally done with her, she knew all the right things to do and say. She even begged for another chance. At the time I was not fully over her. However, something in me just said, "No". That same thing in me also pointed out why I shouldn't believe her.

Long story short, within 2 months of turning down her request to "try again", everything started being revealed to me and I saw that all the reasons I had given for not wanting her back, were true.

She hadn't changed! What had happened was, that she went out there and realized that things were not how she thought they would be and figured, she could run back to me, the one person who loved her unconditionally and always only wanted what was best for her.

Remember: "SOMETIMES WE ARE JUST COLLATERAL DAMAGE IN SOMEONE'S WAR AGAINST THEMSELF".

The love between two women. My God. Ain’t NOTHING more intense.

And…It’s always the one who doesn’t fully choose the other who would be willing to try again. 🥴🥴

Let her go. Release her.

I don't know if she is really remorseful and wishes she could do things better or is she feeling lost and lonely that she needs familiarity to gain comfort that she's not alone. Sometimes people fear dealing with a certain era of life alone because everything is overwhelming and they selfishly hang onto people to satisfy their own need. My own advise to the girl with braids is to just close that chapter and choose herself ❤

“God said no”. Gonna use that one 😂🤣

“I would’ve chosen to be everything for you instead of everything for everybody else.” 💔

Sadly nothing would change if they got back together. That’s how it goes when people don’t take the time to dive deep into healing themselves before getting into a relationship. For the mental, emotional and physical health of the woman with the orange scarf. Regardless of if the friendship goes ok. Don’t get back with her.

Dear One—here I’m referring to the brown skin sister—if God said no, let it be no. You will most certainly find another love.

I really commend these two women for their level of vulnerability. We all gained something from it and there are so many people going through similar situations. Being in a committed relationship takes a lot of love, grace, humility and willingness to look at SELF. My prayer is that they find the healing they need and that this experience helps them in future relationships.❤

She only wants her back because she hasn’t found “better” or she wouldn’t be able to handle seeing braids with another woman. Regret being the driving force is not a great mix.

Loved the video though, great content 👍

Never ever go back to a ex ...their a ex for a reason. Also with that people never really change and if they do its for the next person to deal with.

When youre the one always saving people and relationships you got to know when youre times up. Its easier said than done, but who's gonna save you when you have nothing left in you?

Whew. They love each other SO MUCH.❤ through the tears and the laughter.

They both need time to heal and maybe try again, but if God said no let it go 🤷🏽‍♀️

Tough….. wanting to be with someone and loving them so much but knowing it’s not gonna work. Sucks so bad….

She kept talking about what she deprived herself of…what about what you deprived her of after hurting her?

I don't believe that moving straight into a friendship with someone you just broke up with is healthy. Space is needed.
How do you move and navigate a new relationship with the past still lingering around you?
How healthy is it to keep a friend who is pining after you?

Charlie has great insight. The whole video was so emotional...😥

There’s alot of missing puzzles pieces here like, why did they break up? I’m not understanding the full context here because we didn’t get the main question. Hopefully they can remain good friends tho