HOW TO BE A HAPPY STAY-AT-HOME MOM! | Avoid Mom Burnout, Get Motivated & Be a Better Mom!

Being a mom is one of the hardest jobs in the world and sometimes that can make us tired, burned out or even unhappy. Today I’m sharing how to be a happy stay-at-home. The happier you are, the better mom you can be!

For the income part of it. My mom was a stay at home mom for the first few years of my life and she saved us so much money when she did that. Because of her, we didn’t need to hire any maids or babysitter. She managed out money and paid off over 25k student loans in a year. She always shopped for deals and we always had tons of gifts to give and amazing house decor. My dad always said she made the most money when she was a stay at home mom becasue of how much she saved. She is working now and making a great income but still I never felt as rich as those first 10 years as my life. Stay at home moms are amazing!! Thank you mom!

I love being a SAHM. It's such a transition. But once you realize how much you contribute to the family -- it brings so much pride. 😍

I promise people think you're not doing anything when you are a stay at home mom. Like yea I sit on my butt all day and robots do everything around here. Or when people say a sahm is lazy cause they see their house messy. Like you don't clean 5 times a day. Cleaning up behind everybody including your husband

This is really helpful for a lot of SAHM out there. Women need to hear this message. I heartily agree that our worth is validated by its very nature, not because of the existence of a paycheck. I feel so blessed to be home, but yes, it’s not all gumdrops and rainbows all the time. All we can do is our best.

I am struggling with mom burnout so much right now. I feel like this pandemic has made it 1,000x worse.

Thanks for this video. It's like you're talking to me. 😊👍 I love being a SAHM but it's hard.

I am a recent stay-at-home mom. My husband and I decided I would stay home after my maternity leave ended in April. It's been a lot! I love my kids and love being a stay-at-home mom. But, I have been very tired due to lack of sleep. People say to take a nap when the kids sleep, but I use that time to clean as my two little ones usually don't let me get anything done when they're up. So it's been hard, but I keep telling myself that it's for the betterment of my kids and family. Plus I genuinely love taking care of my husband and kids. I just be extremely tired!

1) list the things u do as SAHM 🖊 2) set goals for your home 3) set goals for yourself - things just for you! - things that make you happy n fulfilled. Keep up the relationship with yourself 4) don’t compare with other moms - u r ur own competitor 5) ask for help from ur spouse - team up with other moms, neighbors, babysitter 6) stay mentally and physically fit

I've been home with my twins for 5 years, without support from extended family. Its been very difficult to find a moment to refresh myself emotionally. Starting this channel (The Learning Patch) has been a wonderful outlet in trying to provide for my family (eventually) and support other moms with small children who need a moment to themselves knowing the kids are watching something educational and fun. ...even though starting a channel is hard work and without immediate reward, I LOVE what I do and hope to see it grow as time goes on! THANK YOU for posting this!!! You're doing AWESOME with your vlog and are an inspiration!

I just wanted to say thank you! As of March of 2020 became a SAHM. Lately I have been struggling with who I am and my purpose. Have even told my hubby I feel worthless. Your advice and tips are great and now it’s time for me to gain my purpose and strength through God!

So beautifully said Becky, thank you! Being a SAHM is certainly hard at times, but it is the BEST job in the world.

"Draw near to God and He will draw near to you." -TheBible🌺

I was a stay at home mom for 5 years. Then I worked the last year and I need to stay home again. My husband wants to work a little more and makes more than I do. But I will appreciate staying home this time and he appreciates it more knowing how hard it is with our kids. So I think it will work out better this time around. Working got me out of my depression so hopefully I can manage it this time

Thank you so much for your words! 💕💖

So true! I’ve been a sahm for 13 years now-2 special needs boys and 1 girl. Every time I’ve “worked” at the workplace not sure why I’ve always had bad anxiety, and my body reacts horribly to that kind of stress. When I’m at home working, I’m actually more at ease with the “kid stress” not sure if that even makes sense! It’s hard with a balance because I do want my own money to save. 😭

This video was really helpful I'm just struggling with feeling tired all the time we don't have help from grandparents or friends I have to pretend to be happy everyday while wishing my 2 and 1 year old were at Nuersy so I can sleep a little ☹ it's really sad that I wish the years would pass quickly so I can have peace

🦋it is so important to remember your worth. You a freakin queen 👑 even if your hair is a mess OWN IT

I am sending my letter to you this morning on my grocery run. Makes me feel good to have someone that will overstand where I am coming from. I feel judged when i try to confide in ppl that I know about sahm issues. Thank you so much for this video

Thank you THANK YOU so much for this video. I’ve been feeling very sad lately. feeling like I don’t have it all together 😣