4 AWFUL Habits That Make People Disrespect You | Stoic PHILOSOPHY
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Published 2024-05-19
*Title: 4 Awful Habits That Make People Disrespect You (And How to Stop Them)*
Hey everyone! In this video, we dive into four toxic habits that can lead to losing respect from those around you, and how you can overcome them using principles from Stoicism. By addressing these behaviors, we can foster better relationships and live a more dignified life.
🔹 *Habit 1: Gossiping*
Discover why gossiping erodes trust and how to shift to more uplifting conversations.
🔹 *Habit 2: Being Unreliable*
Learn the importance of keeping your commitments and how being reliable can transform your relationships.
🔹 *Habit 3: Interrupting Others*
Understand the impact of constantly interrupting and the power of active listening.
🔹 *Habit 4: Complaining*
Find out how constant complaining drains positivity and how focusing on solutions can make a huge difference.
I share some personal stories and hard-learned lessons to highlight the real-life consequences of these habits. By applying Stoic wisdom, we can all work towards being better individuals who earn respect naturally.
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*Chapters:*
0:00 - Introduction
1:28 - Habit 1: Gossiping
4:30 - Habit 2: Being Unreliable
7:50 - Habit 3: Interrupting Others
11:10 - Habit 4: Complaining
14:30 - Conclusion
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Feel free to share your thoughts and experiences in the comments below. What habits are you working on changing? How has Stoicism helped you in your journey? Let's get the conversation started!
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All Comments (21)
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1. Gossiping 2. Being unreliable 3. Interrupting others 4. Complaining constantly
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I totally hate when someone says they will do something then never do
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At 64 yo, I’ve had to kick people out of my life; primarily due to all of these; and not on my part. When one person is the only person practicing self-awareness in the group, it’s time to evaluate the group one is part of. I have, and now I’m alone most of the time. My solitude and peace of mind is way more important than trying to belong where I don’t fit in. 🙏🏼
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I refuse to listen to gossip. I dont care if u get shocked. I literally say “I cant listen to gossip”
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I wish I found Stoicism 20 years ago, The fewer people in your life the happier you will be. Gossip is def the worst, especially family members who do it to each other.
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A fifth bad habit: only using others, only take don't give
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Remember this “ do unto others, as you would have done onto you “. That’s why I have no friends only acquaintances.there are few people you can call friend. Things matter more, than people do to most.
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once heard someone say "does NOT matter how GOOD you are at work, IF you RARELY show up"
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I avoid people. I don’t really care about people anymore especially the way the world is today.
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He speaks the truth.... I can identify. A mentally ill AA member was constantly mocked outside of the meetings ... Once I joined in it... I realized I had done something out of my usual character and when he stopped coming to meetings ... It's something I'll ALWAYS regret, I don't need or want to fit in anymore... Keeping integrity is priceless and will never join in to fit in!!
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I had a college roommate who was a terrible gossip. We confronted her & told her we didn't want to hear it, how ugly it was. She finally did it by making up a huge lie and spreading it and we got her kicked out of the dorm .
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I had a friend who constantly talked about his friends in a negative way and one of those friends said he was saying the same things about me! I can no longer confide with this person for fear of him telling others. I no longer consider him a friend after so many years, our friendship has run its course, it's over.
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I once dated a woman who had a dog named Buck. This woman was always telling Buck what to do and how to do it. When I finally ended our relationship, she couldn’t understand why I was doing so. I told her that she needed a man like Buck and that I wasn’t Buck
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Gossip is something that we all need to avoid.....Some very positive comments in this article ....
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The one thing that nobody will forgive you for is embarrassing them !! It is # 1 !!
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I'm working hard on interrupting.
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5:25 "Let your yes mean yes and your no mean no. Anything beyond this is from the evil one." Matthew 5:37
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One more habit: A CRITICAL SPIRIT about everyone
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I have been guilty of many of these things. And I gave up a friend who was always complaining to me. I just got fedup of listening to her complaints.
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1. breathing 2. having your own opinion 3. being nice 4. being around people
