The Key To Understanding Men's Needs In Relationships | Past Present Future Podcast

When you take care of yourself, you’re a better person for others. When you feel good about yourself, you treat others better.

There are men at 27 and boys at 67….Thank you for sharing.

I love how he says is not a woman’s job to tame the beast in a man. learn to control yourselves and show her you are their to protect and not to eat her up 😂

Damn, he’s right, I told my husband how much I was proud of him and how I admired how hard he’s working to support our family and he lit up and wanted to work harder

"You fail one time thats fine, but again? No." I love it.

Exactly, adult women are like little girls when they are upset or around their men. They want to feel love, respect, kindness, communication, and appreciation, and to be allowed to be in their feminine energy without fear or be judged. Always with awareness and healthy boundaries.

He's so right!!!!!! My ex husband chose to listen to his MOM instead of working out our issues between us....i said " GOODBYE! go be w ur mommy!!!

As a woman , everything this man saying is 100% on point, this interview was extremely refreshing im so impressed because finally a man who gets it ...and a man with a healthy mindset , who is reflective and he makes the change he wants to see , this is what you call a leader and a man who knows who he is....we need more men like him who are responsible and stepped into manhood and not boyhood like he explained God bless him😊

I want to add that this works for secure attachment men. If a man is emotionally unavailable, appreciation and respect will never be good enough.

This is so true. Women, even as children, really need emotional connection. And men, even as children, need to know that thier effort is appreciated. This way in adulthood, she will seek men who won't abandon her when she's emotional and confused, and men will seek women who are openly grateful for his help/authority. I'd go shopping with my friend, and her 4 year old son would leave and walk around the grocery store aimlessly and bump into people. Everyone looked at him like he was a nuisance, but I knew he was actually a brilliant little boy. So, I did an expiriment and asked him to help me shop for a minute. He'd feel the tomatoes and tell me if they were ripe or not. We did the same with other veggies and fruits. I let him know that he was needed. The rest of that day, he stayed with us, carefully observing our surroundings. He "tamed his beast" and channelled all that energy into his discernment and awareness. His impulsiveness had completely vaporized in one instant of geuine recognition. His true nature could finally be expressed and seen. Another time, me and my (then) boyfriend went to a pub, and there were all these gregarious men around. One of them started flirting with me even with my bf right there, but he felt very secure with me. I just patiently listened to the playfully flirtatious man. When he paused, I smiled and asked him if he had a family. He said he has a little girl with his ex gf. I told him that he is a King in his little girl's eyes. In that moment, his back straightened up, there was a ssudden stoicism in his candor and he shed a tear as he listened to me explain how invaluable and privileged it is to be a father. He told his boys he wanted to go home, and he told me thank you. Men need to take their value seriously, and we can help ensure this as women, simply with a little acknowledgement.

Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me, i still love her and most times i cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i dont know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her

This ladies and gentlemen is the rise of a beautiful Divine Masculine.

Women want to feel safe. You take that away or constantly threaten it when having an argument or disagreement and they’re gone.

Respect works both ways and so does appreciation.

You can give all the respect and appreciation, if he’s not invested, it won’t work. And maybe that’s for the best - such a man could never appreciate a golden woman.

I tried to share that with my last relationship, when I am upset, I need comfort, but instead he would get mad. And that is how a woman falls in love, this build trust and you feel heard.

Cant respect a man that starts not showering or brushing for weeks when home.. only if he goes out or to his two week on shift. Cant respect a drunk.. cant respect a man that gets lap dances while his woman is clean, beautiful, starving for affection at home. You have to be worthy of respect.

My grandfather told me in his last days he placed too much emphasis on providing financially for the family and only realized late in life that he was the protector and tender warrior. That should be a mans legacy, we all feel safer when the man is in the room even in the midst of a storm.

And women need to feel their man's attraction and affection.

The 5yr old little girl me when ever she threw an emotional tantrum was actually just looking for validation and acceptance ... It's something Im still learning to offer myself