World Leading Relationship Therapist: Why Your EGO is RUINING Your Relationship! | Esther Perel
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Published 2024-01-15
If you liked this episode, then you’ll enjoy my conversation with world-leading therapist Lori Gottlieb: • WORLD LEADING THERAPIST Answers The B...
What We Discuss:
00:00 Intro
02:14 Why Do We Grieve After a Breakup?
09:05 How to Turn Conflict Into Connection
16:03 Negative Effects of Losing "Curiosity"
20:58 The Blame Game
26:10 How to Make Your Partner Feel Important
33:11 Doing New Things Together
39:27 Mutual Breakups
47:21 Before & After Betrayal
53:41 The Intersection of Relationships, Technology, and Mental Health
57:28 The False Relationship Narrative that Failed us
01:08:54 Diversifying Long-Term Relationships
01:15:02 Why Passion Doesn't Always Last
01:20:02 The Real Definition of Self Confidence
01:27:03 "Where Should We Begin?" A Game of Stories with Esther Perel
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“Every choice comes with a loss” recognizing and allowing the grief is the key to life and a shield against depression!
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“taking responsibility is liberating because the only thing you can really change is you” so good!! 👌
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Two minutes into the podcast and I know this is going to be one of the best podcasts in a while. Every word Esther Perel utters seems to contain wisdom.
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I would love to see more podcasts addressing mental illness in relationships. The same approaches and philosophies are not applicable. But many of us still desire a loving relationship.
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"Listen more than you speak, understand more than you know and be present"
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Esther Perel is the best therapist out there. Every podcast or TED Talks she gives is a mind blowing and frontier breaking experience. I learn every single time new techniques about relationships and all in all about life. Long live Mrs. Perel
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14 mins in and im weeping at my desk. So relieving to hear language given to confusing things
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"Why are you not competent so that I don't have to feel so helpless?" This applies to so many work situations as well!!
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The insight of this woman is unparalleled. Such a privilege to have access to her thoughts
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I had a pretty upsetting argument with my girlfriend of five months, and it caused me to wake up at 4am. Somehow your interview with Esther popped up in my feed and I've been watching it and taking notes. I felt like I was losing my relationship with her due to the deeper self-evaluation we are having, and now I'm realizing a whole lot more that I need to work on with myself and with her. Thank you so much
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"My life is so important. Thank you for understanding it."
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Going through a breakup heartache. This is just what I needed
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She is so clever and assertive..not to mention beautiful too!
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I really love any time someone lets Ester Perel guide them into her world of conflict resolution. Brilliant.
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I don't know why but I have been feeling really sad today, overthinking and dwelling on things I shouldn't. Watching this episode has really lifted my spirits and turned sad tears to happy, hopeful ones. Thank you Jay and Esther for a nourishing conversation 💗💗
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I have been impressed by Ester's insights for years. This is what relationship therapy should look like for anyone seeking help. Too many times you end up with therapists who apply personality lables and place blame. This is why most therapy in the U.S. ends in divorce. Thank you for showing people a great example of what help and reason look like. Frustration, fear, confusion, do not need personality labels and medications. You need insight and logical changes you can apply to yourself.
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Mind blown by the depth of insights in this conversation with Esther Perel ❤🧡 Who else feels like they just had a therapy session? ~ ⭐Forever Mind Story⭐
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Love love Esther Perel, she makes it so easy to understand relationships and is almost very accurate with most information. The best of two!!
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I didn’t want this talk to end. It spoke to me in so many ways and came at a perfect time.
