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Caleb: "I rather be ghosted than cheated on" Kris: "I just wanna be a ghost"

I hope in a year, two years...you two still look and react to each other this way. And then forever.

28 years married and still going strong! - I am a stay at home wife, have been for about 18 years, we share a bank account, we share the money my husband makes (when I was working, we shared all the money then too), I pay the bills every month, buy the groceries, and anything else I want - within reason - we ALWAYS discuss big purchases with each other, no matter what. Ours is a 'traditional' marriage, it's the way WE like it. Some people today, prefer to keep separate accounts and keep their money separate, but those things should be discussed BEFORE GETTING MARRIED! If you both have different ideas about what a marriage should look like - You're not marrying the right person!

Genuinely think the fart one was a bad take. She’s not asking him to never fart around her she’s asking him to not force a fart out on purpose when he’s touching her, which is a fair request. It would make me feel really gross if my boyfriend was forcing himself to fart while cuddling/hugging etc. Especially after I asked him not to. Just because he thinks it’s funny doesn’t mean he gets free rein to do it. She obviously does not think it’s funny. And it IS disrespectful to purposely do something to someone when you know they don’t like it and they’ve asked you not to. Not everyone likes farts. Not everyone thinks they’re funny. Her boyfriend DOES need to respect a clear boundary she set. Because, again, she’s not telling him he’s never allowed to fart, just that she doesn’t want him to force a fart out while touching her. Why is that weird?

Kris:*gives dual perspectives with every well articulated piece of advice Caleb:”just break up”

Seeing Kris truly happy with Caleb is the best thing dude 🥹🥹

regarding the story about the girl who’s boyfriend spanks her when he’s mad (3:32): to put it in perspective, “spanking” (slapping/hitting) any other body part, especially in a fit of anger, would undeniably be considered abuse by any individual of healthy and sound mind, as well as by the law. my hunch says he’s spanking her because he wants to hit her elsewhere, but knows that doing it any other place would get him in trouble. however, he knows he can get away with it so long as he does it on her butt, because it can be undermined and passed off as “just a spank,” therefore she’s “making it a big deal.” he’s showing her that he’s entirely willing to hit + hurt her if she pisses him off enough, which is a clear sign of an abuser. i hope she leaves him before the hitting escalates. especially considering she’s brought it up and he just dismisses her concerns and feelings, he certainly doesn’t care that she feels hurt by it, because that’s exactly his goal, and he can and will go further if and when he ever feels he can without facing consequences. i hope she gets/got out of there and finds/found somewhere safe to go.

the 45-year-old man deleting photos post doesn't need more context. he sounds like he's manipulative, and he is gaslighting his girlfriend. yeah, she should break it off, but if it's an abusive relationship (which seems pretty much like he's controlling and doing things to hurt her on purpose- abuse), the situation isn't that simple.

She Looks so happy when he plays the guitar!☺️ it’s so sweet!🤍

KMK fell for Oompa HARD!! she keeps looking at him with such a "you are my world" face and I'm LOVING it. 🥰🥰

I disgaree with the approach taken to the story around 24 minutes about the wife on the allowance... It could be an arrangement the couple agreed upon, but to me the situation has red flags of potential abuse or control. Someone very close to me right after getting married was given restrictions by her husband that she had to stay home, was not allowed to work, and did not have access to their finances. He also moved them around frequently so that she couldn't developed a solid support system anywhere, so when the physical abuse started no one saw it. There's not enough info in the story to tell if that's happening, but I feel like those red flags were pretty visible and should have been acknowledged

In the financial one, there is definitely missing info, but I don't necessarily agree with the "his money" yes he is the one that worked for it, but when you get married you become a we and your money is shared. I do agree that they need to sit down and have a conversation about the issue

I love that Kris said she had a professional licence and Caleb actually turned to look for it. That's how you know he's a keeper.

Gotta say I think the 2nd story with the fart that the OP was kind of justified. Based on the description it seemed like the boyfriend can tell he is about to fart, farts on her, then laughs. All she asks is for him not to fart directly on her and do it to the side. She communicated and set a clear boundary that really isn’t that much to ask, face your butt not towards me when you fart, and her boundary wasn’t respected. Rubs me the wrong way when that stuff happens. She didn’t say never fart again just don’t fart on me.

Hmm I feel like your opinions changed based on what Caleb was saying. The newly weds one, we dont know the situation. I did think thay maybe she needs to get a job but maybe she cant work or he tells her not to work. Then saying he earnt the money so its his money...ah no. When you are in a relationship, particularly a marriage, and possibly one where she cant work. Its like saying a new mum staying at home isnt earning money and the dad is "working hard" earning the money so its his money...ah no! If the situations were reversed itd be the exact same. Its their money because 1 cant work and you decided to be a team and certain situations cause one person in that couple to not work. I prefer watching videos with just you. Not meant to offend, just my opinion. But glad you are happy living in Texas

That age gap photo guy sounds 100% like an immature gaslighter. The way she describes what is going on, it sounds like the guy is straight up abusive and manipulative. Yikes. Older men can absolutely still be terrible people, the whole "why would a 45yo man act like that" is obvious. He's not a good person.

Kris: We're giving relationship advice! Caleb: END IT! BEGONE FROM EACH OTHER! SALTED CROPS CAN YIELD NO FRUIT!

Fart situation: she set a boundary, was consisten with said boundary, and he kept up with the purposefully farting. Highly disrespectful. Anyone who doesn't respect boundaries as easy as this one is just going to be even more blatent with the more important ones.

5:16 Kris’s bf, “Do your best corpse.” Me, “Choke Me Like You Hate Me But You Love Me.”