Chill Parents VS Strict Parents

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  • "I got eyes at the back of my head" Why this seems like my mom 😭😭
  • Indian parents be like : if everyone is jumping in the drain.... Will you also jump with them 🙂
  • Not me shutting the door quietly and then crying Shouting (quietly) and punching the air to vent out my anger
  • “Everyone else isn’t my kid, YOU ARE!” exactly what my mom says your videos are SO RELATABLE 😭😭
  • @PapaGohn
    Y'all know that you can have chill parents who still raise you to be respectful, right?
  • Actually I am very happy I got strict parents cause when I see children insulting their parents publicly, I feel my upbringing was much better 😌😌
  • @danny.55
    Just straight "No" is too relatable 😂 i had to do it first, getting my ass whooped later lol
  • "I got eyes at the back of my head" that's what my MOM says😭💀
  • @annie9223
    chill parents didn't deserve that rude behaviour
  • My mom used to be strict, then I was 17, thenI replied back sometimes, tears shed, both of us. She is little understanding now. But definately her strictness while growing up was much needed for me to not be involved in any bad decisions. I am 28 years old Indian Girl.
  • "Everyone else isn't my kid, you are" "I got eyes at the back of my head" No one has been as relatable and accurate as her-
  • @g.s.651
    I mean, neither are good. Responsive Parenting is legitimately the best way to go; you maintain firm boundaries, you explain why things happen so your kids aren’t confused by your behavior and go around thinking rules are arbitrary, you avoid teaching your kids during moments of anger when you might screw up but you admit when you do make mistakes so your kids won’t be ashamed to admit theirs or think that adults are infallible / don’t have to apologize—it’s healthy dialogue without throwing out your parental responsibilities. It also helps to give healthy alternatives so they don’t expect to just hear no from you, but anticipate that you can give them advice and help if they’re about to make poor choices. “Can I go stay over at my boyfriend’s house?” “Glad you asked, but no, you may not.” “Why?” “You aren’t old enough just yet; there are adult responsibilities that come with certain milestones in a relationship. One day, you’ll be an adult and you’ll be able to decide if you’re ready for that, and we can talk about what that would entail, but for right now, it’s my responsibility to make sure you don’t get yourself into a situation that you aren’t ready for, because I love you. Instead of sleeping over, let’s think of other ways you and your boyfriend can spend time together which are more appropriate for your age, maybe your father and I can go on a double date with you two at a restaurant you both like, or a movie you want to see.”