Ray J Debates Transgenderism | Candace Ep 41

Spoiler alert, there is no debate men are men & women are women.

When I was 8 years old, I told my mom that I wished I was a boy. Instead of her taking that seriously, she asked why. I told her that boys got to play outside and get dirty. They didn’t have to get their hair done or wear itchy tights to church. I told her it was BORING to be a girl!!! All my friends wanted to do was play with dolls. I hated playing with dolls! I wanted to climb trees and ride bikes like the boys! I’m so glad that my mom simply told me that I don’t have to be a boy to climb trees and ride bikes. I could do everything a boy could do! Thank God that she didn’t take it to mean I actually wanted to transition into be a boy!!!!

Males have a penis, testes, and can produce sperm, while Females have a vagina, ovaries, uterus, and can produce eggs. This is a basic principle of Biology. Males have one X and one Y chromosome (XY), while Females have two X chromosomes (XX). This is a basic principle of Genetics. Males have higher testosterone levels, while Females have higher levels of estrogen and progesterone. This is a basic principle of Endocrinology. Males have a narrower, deeper, and more funnel-shaped pelvis to support a heavier body structure, while Females have a wider, shallower, and more circular pelvis to facilitate childbirth. This is a basic principle of Osteology. Males often develop facial hair, a deeper voice, and more muscle mass during puberty, while Females often develop breasts, wider hips, and experience menstrual cycles. This is a basic principle of Physiology. Sir/Mr./He/Him is used to address biological males, while Ma'am/Miss/Mrs./She/Her is used to address biological females. These are basic rules of etiquette and grammar. A man can identify as a woman, dress like a woman, and live as a woman, but he cannot and will never experience womanhood. A woman can identify as a man, dress like a man, and live as a man, but she cannot and will never experience manhood. Men are the head. Women are the heart. Men provide. Women nurture. They are equally distinct, yet equally needed for the harmony of society. They are oppositely unique, yet they perfectly complement each other. Don't fall into delusions and misconceptions. You don't need to be religious to understand these concepts. © Kent Paul Guadalquiver

Ray J is like the drunk cousin who tried to be involved in a serious family debate but makes no sense at all 🤣

Whoever told Ray J this would be a good idea, needs to fired.

I love how Danielle said "I know I'm not a woman", and then Candace immediately asks Ray-J, do you think she's a woman and Ray-J is like, she is absolutely a woman. Maybe it's just me, but I don't think Ray J gets it at all.

When she brought up the “can you identify as black” and the trans said no, there was no justifying the hypocrisy from the trans and the debate was clear for me.

I have a 40-something y/o lesbian friend, that was severely neglected, physically & mentally abused by her mother, abandoned by her bio dad & abused by her step dad. One day she said she wants to be trans. She never had kids & wants to get her breast removed “since she won’t be using them (her breast)”. I tell her friend to friend that she’s nothing like a man. She didn’t understand, I explained to her that I know her very well & she’s nothing like a man, which confused her because in her mind she is comparable to a man. I told her outside of dressing like a man there’s nothing else man like. The way she thinks, her mind & how she goes about things is alll woman. I asked her if she now wants to remove her breasts as a response to the pain she’s experiencing from not ever having kids? She said defensively “it doesn’t matter if I’m trans or not the ppl that care about me shouldn’t care if I’m trans or not” I said “exactly & what you’re feeling doesn’t mean that you’re a man”, she said “but that’s how I present” I said but that doesn’t make you a man. Why go through the extreme of it all if it really doesn’t matter, you are risking your health, that’s a response to ur pain & does not mean that you’re a man”. She agreed & we ended the convo on a high note. I explained that from someone that does care about her, I don’t think she should subject herself to all of the hormones & surgery. For what? You are who you are. It’s not that others aren’t accepting who they are. They aren’t accepting themselves & most are severely mentally-wounded.

I used to think I was “non-binary.” It started when I took a sociology class in my first year of undergrad. I would wear makeup, dresses, and other accessories. I looked like a clown! I thank God for His light leading me out of the darkness. The truth will make you free.

This RJ guy is not very bright at all. He kept saying that he educated himself but doesn’t even know the talking points 😂 Just pathetic!

Two men trying to convince a female that they know what it means & feels like to be a woman. Makes sense.

“Trans is not a costume it’s not a cloak.” Neither is being a woman.

Saying you believe you’re a woman when you were born a man is the same as saying you’re fat when you’re actually anorexic. It’s calling an orange an apple, when it is clearly an orange. No matter how the orange feels. Same goes for body dysmorphia and gender dysphoria. Why should there only be an exception for trans people? Both “feel” they are something that they are not. It makes no sense.

Ray J is one of those guys who thinks he's a lot smarter than he really is and is completely unaware that he isn't.

RJ wasn’t ready for Candace 😂 She made her point so many times making them contradict themselves over and over 😂 Good job Candace

A polite reminder - you cannot change your sex. It’s not mean or ‘phobic’ - it’s just a fact.

Ray J is so hard to listen to because he sounds so brainwashed and like he hasn’t given his beliefs any further thought. He has a false sense of love and charity.

Ray J has been in Hollywood since he was a child. You know for sure he's compromised!

RayJ sounds like a kid class who didn't read the assignment and trying to chime in with a classmates answer 😜

Danielle is so eloquent and self-aware. She understands she is not a biological woman but chooses to present as female for her own happiness. None of my business, just leave the kids out of it.