After 23 Years of NC, My Golden Child Brother, Who Abused Me with Our Mom's Support, Contacted Me...

Story #1: George's life basically started to fall apart when his punching bag was no longer there to be the recipient of his abuse. Mommy treated him like he was made out of gold, but when the adult world hit him, he learned that he was just a rock.

so the brother saying he change but got annoyed that op walked away from him the first time and called her a "little bitch" yyaaah sure buddy you def change and deserve forgiveness

"I wish I had been there to see the look on my mother's face when the police informed her that they couldn't retrieve me from my marital home" damn yes op!

story 2: even if that chick thought he was just blackout drunk, that doesn't make it any better. anyone who's that drunk can't properly consent. the fact that even he thought it was cheating w/o info is still sad

Golden brother definitely fucked up and wants the op to forgive and vouch for him. Cause he definitely did something

Aaaand this is why we don't have s3x with people "too drunk." Or drunk at all. That woman is still a r------.

Renember... no one is entitled to forgivenes and no one is obligated to forgive. George can go rot cause he has not changed at all and their is zero benifits of OP letting him back into her life.

When someone shows their true colours, believe them

Forgiveness is for yourself, not the other person.

Story 1: That comment about OP being a little b-word just shows that George hasn't changed a bit.

S2 i know if it was a girl talking about getting blackout drunk and waking up in bed with an unknown woman everyone would be screaming rape but its just cheating cause he's a guy he still got taken advantage of no matter his gender

It is so refreshing to have one partner. Why do people feel that one should be sleeping around or that they have missed something?

To the friends in story 2 who are divided on if it’s wrong or not should tell them how about they get drugged the same way in a random day whenever another person wants and you’re not expecting it while he’s trying to get you to break up with your gf 😂 what kind of lunatic does this?

Story 1: would have juat responded with a picture of the scars , and maybe words about “until all the scars are gone, there’s no forgiveness “ Of course, after hearing about how George is raising his daughter to be a psychopathic little AH like he is, I might have included that too.

When I was younger, I never put myself into the situation where someone could slip me anything in a drink and I did not get so drunk while out that I lost control of myself. The only time I did was when I was with my now husband because he would stay sober enough to look after me. He was extremely vigilant about other men around me. Protective. If I got too intoxicated he would pick me up and carry me to the car and take me home and put me to bed. I had no worries with him. Anyway I would only drink when out with other friends to the point that I felt tipsy because that’s the fun part anyway. Everything else is just spiral downward into barfing 😂. Once I hit the tipsy/feeling good and fun stage, I’d switch to a soda or whatever non alcoholic until I leveled out again. Then I could have one more drink and get tipsy again. That worked so well for me. I kept my wits about me because there was always some creeper around waiting on one person to become too drunk to stop his/her advances. Never fails, there always is one shady dude or chick in a group looking to score for the night. And I would always carry my drinks with me, not set them down, and not let anyone else hold them. My chosen father had a niece get roofied at a club with friends and her friends had to drag her out of the club and take her to the hospital. They tested her, and yep-drugged.

“you get black out drunk, you cheat” how do you type that sentence and not realize WHAT TF HAPPENED?!?!

Man I like this channel so much

This is why parentification in the United States was made a criminal act. Your 18 and can leave there are women's shelters that will help you both with a place to live and the legal aspects of having your mother put in prison for a while. As for using your kids credit score that is a felony and she will be put away.

Op in the first story is such a push over, she basically ran from any real confrontation, wheather it was her mother or her brother or her father, she just ran and ignored her family problems

Didn't you hear clearly the second story ?