The Women the Top Tier Black Men Want

My mother had a doctorate degree and married a man that didn’t finish 7th grade. He was a hard worker and provided for her. He retired with 50 years of service on the same job. My Mom became a housewife something she wasn’t able to do being married to my dad. She didn’t leave him, he died, so she kept her vows. All I’m saying I’ll marry a man that works on the back of a garbage truck as long as he treats me with kindness and respect and brings his check home and not waste it in the streets. Education and status in life is not everything if you have no common sense. A rich man can give you 5k and it means nothing to him. A poor man can give you $9 out of his 10 and who would be the most generous. Real love is not about what you have it’s about how you feel about yourself and your ability to display that same affection to the one you love. Water seeks it’s own emotional level.

I say this all the time, and i will say it again: There Is nothing in this world that is a greater asset to any man walking than a BAD CHICK who really got his back! A woman who adds VALUE and brings PEACE to her man's life is a rare gem among a sea of hoes and thots. When you got something going for yourself or have goals to get something for yourself, and she helps you get there while supporting you mentally, you hang on to her. Problem is most women don't understand that they are an ADDITION to a mans life, not the center of it and damn sure not in charge of it.

Rom made an important point. For all the furor over Black men being with white or non-black women, the overwhelming majority of Black men are with black women. People look at what a couple of celebs or other high profile Black men do and project it into some kind of trend. It isn't.

The power to have a better class of women is actually in the hands of the man. If they would stop giving so much attention to the trashy women, then these women would change their standards to match what was required by these men. Instead, men say they want one thing, but still chase the opposite.

Mr. Wills, stumbled upon your channel. Pleasantly surprised!! I'm 55yr young Black woman. From my experience most of what you say is true. I love my Black brothers!! The swag, confidence, strength & many looks of a Black man is so very attractive. I'm blessed to have given birth to 2 Black men. Though I've had bad experiences with their Father's, I will be forever grateful for the children we created & share. They were my best friends. I enjoyed the good times we shared & can appreciate the struggles we endured. Only wish we could've weathered the storms. I'll never turn my back on my brothers. The world is hard enough on them, I will not be a part of their demise!!

Problem is, most of us grew up rough af, with all types of abuse, inside and outside the home. Those of us who "make it" have a lot of strength and will power, but we also changed enough to avoid the BS. Last thing I want is a battle in my house, I save that energy to create my life in this world full of competition.

Im 35, have great career, stay in shape, classy, one child from a previous marriage, and make 6 figures. A true top tier woman does not need validation to know she is a queen.

The older. I get. COOPERATION AND A NICE. DISPOSITION Are. VERY. Important to me.

I appreciate your effort to educate black women because you live the black family image.

I agree! Unfortunately many Black women are conditioned to hate Black men because of possible abandonment from their own fathers. Luckily, my father has been married to my mom all my life and has always been in my life so I don't have a hatred for Black men. I feel bad for the women who were abandoned by their fathers but this is not an excuse to berate Black men and expect to have one want her.

You know when you see the exceptional, beautiful within and without, classy black woman! I guess it's like what women say about the really decent black man....THEY ARE RARE INDEED, but when you see one oh they are a sight to see. The most beautiful thing about them to me is when they get their education and not let their education get them. Translation: they do not allow their degrees to make them think themselves superior to others (this is a Eurocentric trait). Instead, they simply keep their education in it's proper perspective. They can recognize when they see a man who may not have the same level of education that she does, but he has several proverbial PHD's in Integrity, Self-discipline and Awareness. She understands that her place is not beneath, but beside him. She resists the constant temptation lurking within her to try to manipulate and control her man thus allowing him to BE the man he was called to be. She understands her power and uses it to uplift those around her, not tear down. She's out here fellas. Not all of them are hoes just like not all of us are not Dogs. If we get caught up in the myths we'll miss that one when they are right in front of us.

I saw myself as very educated but once my husband told me that the first time he spoke with me, he couldn't slept that night because he wanted me to be his. The thing with me was, I was very educated, excellent carrier but I was not smart. My hubby thought me to be smart. The thing I have against educated women is, lots believes that carrier first and man and children after. I have chosen my carrier along with my man first and oops I got married while still in university. My hubby said that he alwarys knew that he'd marry a black woman on the same level like him. Now I gave up my carrier to be a stay at home mom while he takes care of everything while my job is our home, myself and make him happy.

Respect and salute to those men but i'm not that kind of guy. I'm more the guy that will make it happen regardless. My wife can have tattoos because i have some so it's not a issue. A strong men always looks for a strong women. If have no time to raise a women if you know what i mean. She should already know who she is in this world.

Yes an exquisite "Woman" who rules with an "Iron" fist and a velvet glove, who is submissive to her man... You compliment and support him in every aspect.

You speaking the truth brother you're making a lot of sense!!!

This was a confidence boost to hear. Thank you.

I'm already married for almost 5 years. I'm striving for top shelf status now. I'm in my mid 20s this is very helpful

You nailed it with us wanting Deltas and AKAs... My ex-fiance was an AKA, and my Fraternity [KAPsi] Brothers mostly pair with and marry Black Women. Many of them are members of Black Sororities. Sigma Gamma Rho is common among the wives too... Actually it's the most common among my chapter wives. We're Black and Latino fyi...

I love on all Black men that will let me, to reach their greatness. Black Women who are not perceived as "classy," should get encouragement from the brothas too. Just like a big brother would do!

As long as those college educated women aren't stuck up and condescending towards lower class people.