ADAM COX SHARES NEVER HEARD BEFORE DETAILS ABOUT HIS SISTER LORI VALLOW DAYBELL

CHAPTERS: Intro: 0:00-1:40 Rex's relationship with Lori/ Cox Family: 1:41-3:47 Adam's and Rex's current emotions: 3:48-7:19 Brian Entin’s story about court: 7:20-8:48 John asks Adam how he has changed: 8:49-11:04 Adam's relationships now vs then w/ family: 11:05-20:39 Cox family reaction to the verdict: 20:40-23:01 Did Lori change?: 23:02-38:40 Did Lori's have trauma: 38:41-43:03 Chad copying other authors: 43:04

My father was convicted of a double murder. He used my grampas gun from the war, came back to my grandparents house and turned the mud room into a crime scene trying to clean himself up. Very small town of Hood River Oregon, my grandparents, our family were well known in town. I’ve never gotten over the shock of my father doing that. He died in prison in 2001. Im still stunned and trying to understand. Edit: I do want to be clear that this is my biological father. We got away from him when I was 2, I was not raised by him.. I did go on to have a wonderful stepfather who changed my life forever. I lost him to cancer when I was 21 but he is still with me, 27 years later.. still guiding me and showing me real love from a father. 💜

Charles didn't just "die," he didn't "pass." He was murdered.

" Love is unconditional. Relationship is not." Powerful statement for family members of those with personality disorders.

It's nice to see Adam and Rex speaking out and being a team. I look forward to listening to their podcasts. I realize murdering Tylee and JJ was the worst thing a parent can be involved in, I also feel for Charles. No one talks about Charles as much as I think they should, not just because he was Lori's husband and JJ's adopted step-father, but also because he was totally sane and kept warning people yet no one was able to stop what happened to him.

Wow… Charles was paying for a nanny for the kids even though Lori didn’t work?!? So much for the “she’s such a great mother”.

Love what Rex says: love is unconditional but relationships are not

I hope Charles gets justice and Joe Ryan and Brandon too for false accusations and attempted murder

I have always admired Adam. He listened to the voice of reason with Charles. Bless you. (You too Rex.)

Adam Cox “ she wanted to be somebody special in the church. She wasn’t getting the special things she wanted so she made them up. She wanted validation that she was somebody special”. What an amazing insight and how brave of him to go in for the analysis that leads to better understanding when horrible things happen. ❤️

I'm sitting here tonight in Australia after finding out a family member may have been involved in the murder of a baby. Watching the news and finding out your family member is under investigation absolutely gutted me. I came on YouTube to watch the news stories related and this came up. It felt like kismet. God Bless you both Adam & Rex and all the extended family I pray for healing for you all. 🙏 😞 RIP Charles, Tylee, JJ & Tammy 😢

I never realized how much Colby looks like Adam. I hope for everyone who has ever been associated with Lori Daybell( she does not deserve to have Charles’ last name) finds healing and true peace.

I don’t think Adam is just depressed, I think he’s grieving. He not only lost those that died, but the sister and their family’s relationship as it once was. He also went through a divorce not long ago. Rex seems like a great person to help him talk through it and build a different, but wonderful life.

Dr. John, you have definitely mastered the art of interviewing to get to the heart of issues without causing defensiveness or having the interviewee shut down.

I wonder what they have to say about their sister Stacy’s death? Alex being there and the family not returning from Hawaii for the funeral.

You hit the nail on the head Dr. John. There seems to be a lot of denial that runs deep in this family dynamic. Often times an abuse like Adam describes sounds like a family secret that possibly got swept into the closet. Older siblings can live a lifetime never really knowing their families true secrets. I've seen it happen in my mom's family. No one knew what my mom went through with a family member until after that family member died. Then the truth came out. So very sad for everyone involved. My heart breaks for all of them. My thoughts and prayers are with the familes. Early drugs, early marriage, abusive marriage, family alienation, all classic signs. I see the direction you are going John. Wanting to understand her history that helped shape her. Thank you for asking those questions. I've been beside myself wondering myself.

Of course they killed Joe Ryan… it makes 100% more sense Than anything. And it’s not normal for people to say their going to “take someone out”. Joseph Ryan was determined to be innocent of all of the allegations against him. Lori destroyed then killed Joseph Ryan. 100%

Would Adam's depression be considered a natural and healthy response to this abhorrent crime? Like a death, the process of healing in the aftermath has many stages. Yet this is not only the death of an extended family system, but actually numerous deaths of loved ones. So sad. This is going to take a lot of time to heal from.

Lauren: I hope you don’t let a few people in chat taint your view of this interview. It was incredibly well done and insightful. I will be listening to their podcast, and I would love to see them on this channel again. Thank you Adam, Rex, Lauren, and John for allowing us to listen in on your discussion. For me, it is healing to talk/listen more about this situation.

There is an unbelievable amount of denial in this family!