My Wife Is Done With Our Marriage But Won't Leave!

Published 2022-07-18
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All Comments (21)
  • @kayn2756
    This guy is too nice. He doesn't even blame her. Get a paternity test ASAP.
  • @Astro95Media
    My ex-wife did this, too. She even went so far as to say she wanted to divorce me but still live together so I could support her. I yanked the rug out from under her and she lost everything. Now her side piece is stuck supporting her while she pays me child support. This guy needs to do the same.
  • @patbhvac1
    She wants him to go to work all day and support her while she sleeps with Chad. This can't be real...
  • @AZ_TONY
    She wasnt talking to a guy "a couple days later" this has been on going for months but she kept quiet about it to have her husband as a back up while she waited to see where the new fling would lead to, the sudden "being done" is the byproduct of months of infidelity and the idea that she thinks she's found something more valuable than her current standing
  • @cenarules190
    Sadly she wants him as the backup if it doesn't work with the new person.
  • I had the same thing happen. He needs to hire a lawyer and get tough. He needs to demand the house, full custody and child support from her. She needs to get an apartment not him. The one who cheats moves out.
  • @slidegirl6005
    I think the wife should consider an exciting career in the fast food industry
  • @Hiker2110
    She's making big girl decisions and getting big girl results. Dang, Rachel 👏👏👏
  • Because she wants the benefits of what you bring still but won’t return the benefits. LEAVE!
  • @jill9606
    She wants to divorce you and still stay in your house and live on your dime and not live her life with dignity by earning her own income? Absolutely insane. By choosing to divorce you, she is choosing to move out, live separately, and go back to work and earn her own income!
  • @landshark7684
    Jake I hope you read all these comments. Stop being a doormat dude, get the paternity test and let her go- you deserve better. Her living situation, job situation, etc is no longer your problem. Stay strong man
  • @SarahErsch
    She wants the benefits of marriage without the marriage 😂
  • @David-wo9un
    Great advice from both Dave and Rachel; if she has decided to leave emotionally, there is no reason to share the same physical space.
  • @garronl.7989
    Get a paternity test. She has already left the relationship emotionally so there's no need to physically stay together.
  • @MR3DDev
    She is talking to someone else, she has probably cheated. I'd even get a paternity test on that kid.
  • My ex husband wanted a divorce and stay in the house. It was so incredibly painful to see him everyday interacting with kids and going thru the divorce. It lasted a month I asked him to leave. It was the first step toward healing. I wish him the best It does get better. ❤
  • In other words the wife wants wife privilege of being a stay at home mom and have her husband take care of her but she doesn’t want him . Wow . Unbelievable
  • @AVG336
    Dang she wants him to take care of her financially, while another guy takes care of her "physically". NO WAYJOSE! 🤦🤦
  • Don’t let her use you! There are plenty of no skill jobs available and even no skill remote work jobs that she can do to make ends meet. If she’s choosing to be a single parent let her! Staying “together” for the sake of the child is never healthy. Kids know!!!