Stepmom Made Fun Of Me When I Was Sick With Cancer But Few Years Later I Give Her The Taste Of Her..

You don't pick on and bully children, let alone a child with cancer.

I agree with the one commenter. Everyone was so quick to defend the stepmonster, but where were all these "family members" and flying monkeys when a cancer-afflicted child was being ridiculed by this adult and even avoided by her own father at a time when she especially needed his love and support?

Hold up, OP hasn't seen her dad in 4 years...? His child, had cancer, and he hasn't seen her in 4 years?? OP isn't TA even if you cut out what her stepmom said about her weight.

Stepmonster made a cruel comment towards a sick 13-year-old. Four years later that now 17-year-old gets petty revenge. I can’t think of any situation where I would defend fat-shaming, but there’s just no way I can justify calling OP an ahole over this.

Story 1: this woman went up to a 13 year old cancer patient and said she look pregnant dead in her face knowing full well what was going on, no way am I never calling op an AH for giving her a piece of her own medicine. You could have been really mean and follow up with, medicine was making you bloated, what's her excuse? And since all these family members feel the need to butt in where were they when she insulted you while you were in the hospital, or your dad just abandoning his daughter after the mom understandably demanded his fiance apologize? Tell anyone who calls you that said they weren't around when you were the target they don't get to blow up your phone demanding anything.

NTA. 💯 justified. They let her say stupid shit about a cancer stricken kid.FTB !!! Don't apologize, kid.

“Her reasoning is she points out what she sees.” What is she a toddler? That’s what an uncultured, heathen does. At least with children it can be somewhat excused 🙄

My ex, Greg said that my cancer meds made me look old and wanted me to stop taking them! He would rather have me dead than alive! On different meds now, he is gone, and I am a lot happier.

Nah, you did the right thing Op. Making fun of someone, especially a minor who has cancer is a big no-no. NTA.

Story #1: I wonder how all those who defended the step witch FOR INSULTING A CHILD WITH CANCER, Should Be Called Out In Front Of ANYONE! And if ANY of their children gets sick then bullying them and insulting them is perfectly fine

Lol you don’t get to make fun of a kid with cancer, and then be mad when the same kid comes back later on and makes fun of you! It may have been an AH move, but it was a justified AH move. Hell I would’ve said far worse, so step monster should count herself lucky.

I'm fat and American, I think I'm a Boomer. I might complain but I sure as hell wouldn't blame. Greek architecture is lovely. Uninvite her and you'll have a much nicer Spring Break.

Hotel Story: That friend who thinks centuries old buildings must be catered to her sounds like someone who should not leave America. If this is her attitude, then it sounds like she'd be a pain for the staff of any place she goes

STAIRS ARE PART OF THE BEAUTY OF IT ! BEST PHOTO OPPS

3rd story- the sister Blames her mother for the husbands affair ?? Demands a (no longer needed) nursery in a house that is not hers nor is contributing to? Shes holding the family hostage to her rage and they’re tiptoeing around her.

"because you don't say stuff like that" yeah exactly.....especially a child....with cancer...

You can have PPD when you have a still birth as well. The depression from the loss, the divorce, the lack of work, and more needs to be addressed by a therapist.

ST2 Then Harper can find a hotel nearby that caters to her, but she’ll have to pay for herself. How was the uncle supposed to know Harper is fat, he’s never met her before and probably never met OP’s uni friends either. Harper needs to realise especially in Europe that old places aren’t going to cater to her and her size and that it’s not fatphobic.

Greece is a country of hills. They are everywhere. I know someone from Greece and thinks the hills are annoying. If she goes for the summer, she's going to sweat, period. No getting out of it. Not the best place for her unless she wants a serious work out, with lots of lean meat and amazing vegetables

NO HATE COULD BE SO DEEP ! THAT WOULD MAKE FUN ! OF SOMEONE BATTLING CANCER !