How to make an INFP like you

Love the advices man! Thank you! :)

Succint information. My answer to how to make an INFP like you: Be a safe person. Do activities together + find common topics of interest. Be calm in your soul. Build rapport. Don't hog the conversation/ do ask questions. Pursue me. (People I like do this in small ways.) Be moral and God-fearing.

We take criticism perfectly fine. I personally don't like it when people criticize me because it tends to be based on their judgments rather than my actual personality. If the criticism is accurate and actually needed then I'm cool with it. If it's just thrown at me because I'm not doing what everybody else wants at the moment then I'm ignoring it.

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It's not that INFPs don't like criticism, it's that a lot of them finds it hard not to take them personally. If you're not sure how emotionally matured an INFP is, just present the criticism in a way where they can feel you're coming from a place of care. Gentle words will help, and it will make them more likely to listen than to react emotionally. Although some INFPs can be stubborn and be angry at first even then, especially younger ones, just wait for them to come around eventually, as they probably need a lot of self-reflection. However, if the INFP is toxic, of course that's a different thing altogether. As an older INFP myself, yes it does feel sometimes like talking to a kid when you want to be with an INFP, but never mistake us being in touch of our inner child as us being incapable of making adult decisions. INFPs are filled with wisdom beyond our years. Tldr, talk like you would with a kid in a way where it's gentle, loving, and caring, listening to their passion and feelings, understanding and patient; but at the same time see them for who they are, tap into their beliefs and wisdom, ask deep questions, offer advice/gentle guidance but trust that they are capable and intelligent enough (4th function Te) to handle themselves. It's really not that difficult to get an INFP to like you, just be a decent and interesting human being unafraid to be authentic and you'll have a loyal friend/person/partner by your side. (Just adding this to the video, of course, as the video has a lot of good points.)

Once I did a personality test which said that I'm an infp and criticism is very important for me, and I'm always thankful for them (as long as they are phrased in a nice way). Otherwise the video is pretty accurate.

So great for people to get me now

Is there any INFP here who knows that many peolpe are on point about their character but deny it anyway.