6 Biblical Qualities To Look For In A Christian Husband

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Published 2021-02-20
What qualities should you look for in a godly husband? In this video, we're unpacking six biblical qualities to look for in a Christian husband. This was actually inspired by a Christian dating and relationships sermon series by Jonathan Pokluda. Essentially, he looks at the biblical qualifications of an overseer found in 1 Timothy 3, and draws application from it to what qualities we as Christian women should be looking for in a future husband. As JP put it, God has standards for the men He would have lead His Church - which is His bride - and it follows that these standards would also apply to the men He would have take His daughters as their bride. This resource has been incredibly helpful to me, and I hope it is to you too! 💛

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All Comments (21)
  • @kacinicole
    Comment what quality you’re looking for that’s most important to you! Or if you’re married, what quality in your spouse you value most. 💛
  • @pie9553
    Just saving this for myself 1. Commitment 3:10 2. Humilty 5:07 3. Reputation 6:24 4. Initiaitve 7:18 5. Self-control 8:07 6. Submitted to God's Truth 8:52
  • @kuiane1252
    Qualties of my husband. A born again Christian, loving, caring, understanding, focused, kind, hardworking, faithful, honest, self control, isn't quick or short tempered, loves me for me, great father and husband, best friend.
  • I love and listen to Voddie Bauchum all the time. I'm 70 years old and still single. I won't settle. Have not been able to find a man that lives these 7 principles. But it's ok. I'm being still in the Lord. So if I'm supposed to be single until the Lord calls me home, I'm at peace with that most of the time. I'm so grateful for the life HE has given me thus far. I'm richly blessed.
  • @TheLychie
    I was struggling with liking this guy and asked God to show me clearly if he was the one or not. This video answered my prayer. He's not. I see how we're both lacking in things before we can pursue marriage. I love how you said think of him not only as a husband, but a father.
  • Coming from a man seeking God & building relationship with Him... this is very insight to develop as a man my future wife will be searching for
  • I wish Christian women did more videos on intentional singleness. God ordains marriage as a good thing, but Paul actually talks about in Corinthians that it’s better to be single because you have an undivided heart for God. I wish there was more content on choosing to not marry!
  • @Shepherd1234
    5. Self-control 8:07 And also to put this more bluntly self-control about (thoughts about) sex, porn etc... When you are dating, it's important to find a moment at some point to be able to talk about that and not avoid it. Even if it could feel quite direct and blunt. As a man, it's hard and can be a struggle and so it is important to put it on the list for all girls who want to find the one and build on great foundations.
  • Im glad your channel found me, not only was this informative it was really enjoyable. God bless you for your content sister!!!
  • @veeree1746
    Thank you for this video Kaci! I love the breakdown and elaboration you do in your videos. It's great to be refreshed by what the word of God says!
  • @faithwithvivian
    This is sooo good🤍 I cant choose which one I value the most all are so important! Lol but i would have to say probably how much he serves and how committed he is to the church 😊👍🏻
  • @NovusIgnis
    This was a fantastic video to watch. It feels good to know that I've developed many of these qualities, and if I lack others it's simply due to my own faith still needing to be grown and fortified. It's not due to a lack of willingness but time. I also really appreciated you pointing out the difference between confidence and boistrousness. I think this is something that women in the church really really need to learn. In general when it comes to women, there is a heavy emphasis on qualities that the world prizes but which are not Godly at all. So many women that I've known will pursue an unGodly man simply because he's loud and arrogant and that comes off as confidence. I think a good series would be highlighting negative and worldly qualities that can fool believers into thinking that someone is something they aren't. Things like women being fooled by a man's false confidence or men giving in to a woman's sexual advances because it means she likes him.
  • @joyfenton0227
    LOVED THIS 👏 the Fantasy talks from The Village church changed my life when I first watched them. Thank you for perspective you brought here, and for speaking to this (as always) in such an insightful and beautiful way! 💕
  • @Marie_Garwood
    This is so good! What a thought—and one I’ve personally not had before! It does stand to reason that the qualities of an elder ought to be the same for a husband, given the analogy of Christ and the church!
  • @songsofsofia
    This was some great advise! I've been married for over 15 years, and me and my husband sure made a journey. But the areas you were touching are very important in all marriages but especially in Christian ones.
  • Oh my gosh, sis, you are the best! I love you and your channel. May God bless you!!
  • @Darin777JC
    Good to hear this. Thank you for sharing.
  • @tlit3284
    Your so awesome! Thank you 🙏🏻 God bless you and everyone 👍🏻😇🤍