the truth about everything. (the wedding, jake, alissa, erika, mtv, mental health, drugs, etc)

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Published 2019-12-29
i filmed this right after my (two day) break from socials. obviously things are a little better and different since then, but i felt like i needed to say all of this in order to grow. love you. thank u for listening. we got this.

All Comments (21)
  • 2019 was the grind and hustle for your career so 2020 is for healing and nurturing your success
  • @catm6784
    “jake could kill my whole family and i would still love him.” someone tell me that this isn’t toxic. honestly even though people don’t like tana she doesn’t deserve this.
  • that saddest part is i don’t think jake cares enough to even watch this video
  • @nekkobat6876
    “You’re the fun girl and you’re not having fun” that hit me actually
  • @-chloe-8728
    tbh i always hated the “tana paul” thing. girl you are TANA MONGEAU.
  • @evangeline8803
    "and again, I'm not blaming Jake..." some of this stuff she should be blaming him for. it is his fault
  • @jackielynn3974
    When you see she’s not “TANA PAUL” anymore. Strap in guys.
  • @SunkissedMama
    Didn't Jake Paul do this same thing to Alissa Violet? Hook up with girls while being with her. this isn't cool he treats women this way.
  • @pjs5950
    this reminds me of this saying i once read: "When you are not fed love on a silver spoon, you learn to lick it off knives" - i hope you find happiness and the love you need in your life
  • basically: the wedding was fake to everyone else, to all of us, to jake even. it wasn’t fake to tana tho :(
  • @chelseab3987
    Jake loves no one but himself. Tana loves everyone but herself. 🤷🏼‍♀️
  • @alexia3552
    When you feel pressured around a guy to be the "cool girl" or the "cool girlfriend he never had", it's a role that strictly exists to let him do whatever he wants regardless of how it affects you. It's a position of exploitation. It's never healthy. And it's so incredibly common for guys to subtly manipulate you into thinking it's your idea to fill that role, manipulate you into thinking you're so mean and just making their life worse if you're not "chill" about everything. Have boundaries! Always defend them! Never let them be ignored or abused, not even by yourself. No healthy or happy relationship can exist when you're constantly having your boundaries crossed, or your feelings ignored, or pouring out you heart, soul, life, and effort for someone who isn't doing the same for you.
  • @elakarki2129
    the fact that he didn’t stay with her and comfort her when her dad almost died and her grandma passed away shows exactly what kind of person he is. He is straight up manipulating her and she deserves better
  • @praisedeezus
    when you see someone through rose colored glasses, all the red flags just look like flags
  • @liar8645
    i remember when her and jake first started dating and everyone was shipping them.. and started to like jake because of tana..
  • @p3rpl3skittles
    “When someone dies I celebrate and move on” that’s just an excuse so he doesn’t have to deal with your sadness
  • @adree313
    The amount of “it was my fault” after things that were NOT her fault is so scary, sad, alarming, all the things.
  • @bryony7564
    The fact that Jake continued to go on the “honeymoon” while you dealt with the loss of your nan says a lot about him. Leave him in 2019 girl. Boy bye 👋🏼
  • @fridahagen1387
    The bond you feel you have with Jake is not real - i had a similar boyfriend where i felt we had the strongest bond, but every girl he met after me felt the same way about him . He was a Master Manipulator. And thats what Jake is ..