A Badass Reaction for When He Pulls Away

The Biggest Coward Is A man, Who Awakens A Woman's Love, With No Intention Of Loving Her

"Men who cannot make up their mind are not worth your love." Damn right.

Ladie stay away from inconsistent and inconsiderate men. When they really want you there will be no question. Don’t be gaslighted into the idea of having to give them space and be detached and cool with uncertainty. That doesn’t feel good because it’s not healthy!

When you start playing roles and strategies, deep down you know he's/she's not the right person ;-)

Social media has heightened this behavior on both sides. A man shows you who he is by his actions. You have to be strong enough to decide you are better than that and move on. It's better to be single and happy than miserable with someone who doesn't respect you.

Basically: just bc someone showed interest for a time doesnt mean they owe you even more attention. Even though you start to expect it. Love this advice cos it took me ages to learn.

someone neglecting you is simply not for you. Please don't waste ur precious time on them. Someone better is waiting to meet you❣

If I could be honest here... I feel like these male dating coaches give women advice instead of giving men advice on how to deal with their emotional unavailability and inability to manage relationships. They always forget attachment styles and how many men actually struggle to maintain connection. He's telling us that men should be self-sacrificial and basically idolize us, but Narcs do the same thing when pursing. I wish we would be more honest and give men and women advice how to be healthy instead of trying to navigate toxic behaviors. There are are alot of men and women who are avoidant and pull away because of their own emotional struggles.

i don’t expect the same amount of attention all the time. I only expect to be notified about what’s going on.

This is why women need to ‘ quantum date ‘ don’t just wait around for a man. Peel your energy off him and get on with your life.

The thing is, if someone isn't contacting you anymore, or doesn't seem to want to do anything, that person has lost interest. Doesn't matter how much you might love someone, you can't force them to love you back. So when a guy or girl does this, it's time to move on. Life is too short to play games. If someone really likes you, or loves you, the last thing they will do, is keep you waiting, to go radio silent, too suddenly not seem to have time for you anymore. Someone that's really into you, will move heaven and earth to be with you. So if you're getting the silent treatment, it's more than likely time to move on. To me, that's a sign of disrespect. They are leaving you hanging, because they don't want to tell you the truth, that they aren't really interested anymore. Don't beg for another chance. If they already written you off, that's their loss, and you most likely dodge a bullet anyway. You're looking for the One, and you should never have to fight for the One's attention. They should want to be with you, as much as you want to be with them. Trust and Respect are the 2 most important things in any relationship. Once either of these are broken, your relationship is going down hill. Love is a 2 way street. Don't stay in a relationship, just because you love them, if they aren't giving back to you as much as you're giving them. Life is too short to be with someone that doesn't really love you. There is a reason why the Divorce rate is so high. Finding the One is harder than you think. IMO, you should find someone that likes the same things as you do. If you end up with someone where you always stay in different rooms of the house, because you don't like what your SO is doing, than imo, that's a problem. You should find someone that likes the same things. So you can do those things together. Because otherwise, if your not in the same room, what kind of relationship is that. Attraction is only going to carry you so far, after awhile, that might get old. If you can't stand being in the same room with each other, that doesn't sound like a good recipe for a good relationship.

Maybe I won’t have another relationship, maybe I’ll jump the fence, maybe I’ll find a guy who likes me, and has emotional maturity…I’ve gotten to the point in my life where ghosting is an automatic move on. I don’t have time for that nonsense.

Spot on! Thank you for validating my thoughts and actions. I’m always polite, mirror his level of interest, or lack, there of. No negative emotions, no entitlement. Simply disappointment and thinking about lessons learned. Trust is difficult at any age, especially at 70. Many years of experience in relationships of every genre has taught me to simply observe others and allow natural behavior unfold. I’m a free spirit and respect boundaries. I appreciate the same.

I like how you say, it will happen to you too. So true. Both men and women pull away from time to time. Ups and downs. Doubts from time to time. Even may not feel “ready”. It’s human nature. In most cases. It doesn’t just happen to the man. Sometimes you just have to focus on life and yourself and let the other person mature (or not) and figure things out. If they r worth your investment. Then just be patient. Forgiving. And if u two have love and respect for each other, things will work out and you two will be together eventually. Everyone and everything can’t always be on the same page all at once in life. There may be separation pain and disappointment even. But if he is high value then be patient. He will come back around w eventually. Life has a way of “maturing us all up” over time. And we finally “realize” what we want and what is good in our lives and then “we r ready”...to move forward to the next level. But it has to come natural from his (or her) own feee will and heart. He will suddenly wake up one day and realize. I need this woman in my life. Her love. Her presence. Her aura. Her energy. Her care. Her shoulder. Her arms. Her ear. Her lips. Her scent. Her eyes. Her safety and understanding. Her partnership. Her friendship. Her heart. Her opinion. Her talents and abilities. Her tenderness. Her laughter. Her spirit. Her passion. HER. My baby. I need her I want her and her alone, and I don’t want to lose her or let her go to any other man. Then he will be ready. Sometimes it takes suffering pain and loss to come to our senses. Both men and women.

The thing I don't understand about men is why show interest in the beginning then tell later on that you're not sure what you want.

Yeah you can count on him pulling away. Just be sure that you gave him Nothing of yourself that he can take with him.

Nobody owes each other love , they don’t have to love us, and we don’t have to love them . Let them free

I don't know why, but your videos calm me down whenever I am insecure. You're a very practical person. Thank you so much!

KEY : TRUST THE PROCESS ❤

Specifically: if a man is getting off & the woman is not, his 'needs' are getting met and then she appears 'needy' if she asks for more... That's why women need to be careful. If it's ok for you as a woman to sleep with a guy and he is the only one climaxing, he is fulfilled yet eventually this may create 'need', expectation or even a neediness in the woman that the man starts to pull away or call out. Guys will leave if the woman appears 'too needy' yet not even realize both have needs that need fulfillment. That's often why if the guy can make the weekly calls, romance, share a card or find what fulfills her, the relationship may grow. Admit it: guys often only need '3 minutes of a woman's time'... He's all set. Women need to be hear & need to have space to speak up to what will bring them bliss. Women deserve more than 'a minute man'. ... just a perspective to think about.