Getting engaged, married and our wedding night | Ep. 3

We reallllly got into it this week and shared a few controversial opinions on our views on marriage and what went down on our wedding night LOL...cannot wait to hear what you all have to think about this one! Also, the comment section of these podcasts is unbelievable...if you have a few minutes, go read a few of them! This community has so much wisdom and perspective to share, love what we're all creating together! Make sure you chime in down below! ❤

After three episodes, I'm convinced TANGENTS is conversational magic! Tyler and Todd are so engaging, warm, funny and honest that I find myself wanting to listen to them forever. They have me laughing and crying and thoroughly in love with them both.

I am a 77 year old heterosexual woman and I completely LOVE you both! I look forward every week to see what you’re up to. I love your candor, your humor, and your commitment. Thanks so much for sharing your lives and adventures and deep honesty with me and your millions of fans.

Tyler: "Todd and I are not people that do big elaborate things for each other" Each other: Let's drop our lives, travel across the North American continent, homestead in the wilderness and build a custom village in the middle of Nova Scotia. The Gays: We see you :P

I am from Estonia and this year we legalized same sex marriage. 😊

I have a feeling that you two could continue to record your hilarious, spill-the-tea, heart warming Tangents broadcasts even after you both check in to Shady Pines retirement home. I’m hooked!

"Too bad you can't afford the rest of the photos because you don't have a job" ....bahahaha, I spit my tea across my desk. You guys are too funny!

My (now legal) husband and I met over 40 years ago and are STILL developing our relationship. As far as the nursing homes go, I worked in a couple of those - I would not wish that living situation on my worst enemy. Stay healthy and stay home as long as you can! My husband is in his 80s - recently shattered his pelvis and has dementia, but he'll NEVER go to a nursing home!

My partner and I have been together for 38 years. Straight people used to say, “Homosexual relationships don’t last.” Gay people would say, “Yeah, I once had a relationship for ‘x’ years.” I came to think that if people had more faith in our relationships, then they might last longer. It keeps getting better.

You guys have the most important part of marriage, you respect each other. Rock on guys.

This is exactly one of the main reasons why you guys have such a healthy connected relationship - you allow each other to express yourselves - sensitive to each other’s hurts snd moods. When you want the best for each and are willing to be kind it works. In many relationships at least one partner feels unheard. They get such an angry attack if they express their hurts and needs. This as you guys expressed causes resentment and break down. I could listen to you guys for hours. Really enjoyed all the sharing. Thanks

Todd: as long as there's blood pumping through our brains we will remember that tyler 1 s later: oh yeah, i forgot about that

If only more people had the compassion and respect for each other that you two have… the world would be a better place ❤ ❤

Some people develop a negative view on humanity. Watching you two interact should be the perfect antidote. I like people and so for me it's a conformation that basically we're OK. Although some of us sometimes might not have been so OK against our own best wishes.

As a 75 year old alone gay man who was one of those who fought for the right for all of us to marry ... I so appreciated everything about this episode. Your discussion should be required viewing for anyone who even entertains the idea to marry. It is profound, educational, moving, and life changing. I seriously hope Tangents is as therapeutic for you as for your subscribers! You two change lives. Thank you.

I appreciate you guys a lot. I really do. I was married to my accepting wife for 51 years and cared for her with MS for 26 years. She wasn't able to ambulate for the last 15 years. We were fully committed to keeping our wedding vows. She has now passed. I am now free to be the gay man I always was, and that has been medically proven. I was a Baptist Pastor and missionary at one point. But I am not looking for a husband. Too old now. But seeing you both together is so good. I also really admire how you manage your finances. I was also an accountant for many years. Your home is going to be amazing when it is finished. Every happiness together. Big hugs.

I love these chats ❤. Your tangents are like colorful quilts.

Great video. My husband and I have been married 51 years and I love him more everyday. He is my everything. Love and Blessings to both of you.😊😊👨‍❤‍👨👨‍❤‍👨💖💖

“Did you trade two pigs for me?” That was classic. You guys are really hilarious, open and honest. I’m glad i found your channel.

I can not even start to convey how much I love u guys. My husband and I have been married for 31 yrs. We have 3 children and 5 grandchildren. I absolutely love our family. However being married this long has been a lot of hard work. Don't get me wrong we have had a ton of good times but iam always open to advice and I just learn so much from u guys. I can't express how much I love TTT. So funny, emotional, serious, crazy and just entertaining to spend time with u both. My husband knows when iam watching cause I will go from laughing hysterically to crying in a span of 2 secs. Love u guys keep it coming. Hope u have a good week and weekend. Lots of love❤️ Kristine in Ontario Canada 🇨🇦