How Long Should You Wait For Marriage After You Start Dating?
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2023-03-10に共有
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Tamar is right. It doesn't take that long for a person 35 and up to know if they want to marry you. I was 33 when I started dating my husband. We started talking about marriage at four months and was engaged four months later (total of 8 months). Planned a big wedding so we didn't get married until a year later, but we've been married 22 years now. 😍
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I met my husband and married him in 6 weeks. That’s my boo for the last 18 years and counting. ❤ it all depends on the people, but a lot of folks just living in fear.
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I met my husband when I was 40. We married and had a baby a year later. We both wanted to marry each other and have a family. Since we were older we were not trying to waste time. We have been together for 12 yrs. Marrying him was one of my best decisions in life. He is everything to me. I feel so Blessed to have a family with him.
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She's a natural in this role. She has a good radio voice, engages, and has a lot of personality without being overbearing.
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I been dating my girlfriend for over a year and I already know She is the one I’m 34 no kids she has no kids and it’s time ;)
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The older I get the less time I feel like I need to wait before getting marriage. Not because of time because as I get older I’ve become wiser, I know who I am and I am confident in my abilities to trust my gut and notice red flags early on
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I agree with Tamar. 6 to 12 months is good if you are over 30 years old. I think our society just is not as mature as we used to be which is sad. I got married when I was 24 and my wife was 25 (we are both 31 now). Would have gotten married sooner but I was still in school. Once you’re out of school and have a career, it shouldn’t take you too long to decide.
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My husband was talking marriage 3 months in, we got engaged after 5 months and were married after 9 months. I was 37 turning 38 and he was close to 40, both with children from past relationships and clear on what we wanted from a relationship, partnership and a marriage.
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We have to normalize having difficult, honest conversations. We grown! Being upfront should not be a deal breaker.
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Idk if Tamar should brag on her discernment like that. Her history with her exes ain’t that great.
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Don’t let your wife get in the way of you finding your soulmate
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It depends on the couple and what works for them. My big sis met her now husband in 2006 through MySpace had their first kid 2010 their second kid 2013, got married 2016 and had their last kid 2017. They just bought they're second home and are still going strong.
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The crazy part is that you can wait 10-12 yrs for someone, then y'all break up and then they go and with another person the 1st year or two of knowing them and do everything you wanted them to do... this happens a lot! I've seen this in my 45 yrs so many times in my life...
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In my 20s, I'd wait for 2 years. 30+ - 6 Months. I met my husband and was engaged in 6 months and married a year after that. My Mother who is a nurse said, don't let anyone run out your fertility clock.
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Love her!!
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"Sir, relax" lmao
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When I tell you I LOVE Tamar on this show. Please keep her.
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Waiting at lest a year (4 seasons, all the holidays and maybe even a major life event) is a reasonable amount of time to decide if you’d like to marry someone. But then you’ll need at least another 4-6 months of runway until the wedding. See how they are as a Fiancé and not just a boyfriend/girlfriend. Hopefully, before the wedding day, you’ll have a fuller picture of the person, their life and their family.
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Envy: What does he do? Charla: Nothing! 😂😂😂
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Everybody has a “timeframe”. But I’m not putting my all into someone who can’t wait if necessary. 6-12 months ain’t enough time to know everything about a person and be their forever. That’s just love without logic. Which is fine, but that’s not a risk everyone is willing to take. If you just “have to” be married, find someone with that same mindset. But you should want more than just the title of marriage imho.
