The Science of the Friend Zone

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Published 2013-01-10
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Wild Sex episode: bit.ly/VNLpGl

My episode about how much money love is worth: bit.ly/UO91ZJ

Can guys and girls just be friends? VIDEO: bit.ly/UO8R4H

Jenna Marbles on "nice guys" [NSFW language]: bit.ly/UOdpIa

FRIENDS episode about the Friend's zone: www.imdb.com/title/tt0583579/

Clip of friend zone moment on FRIENDS: bit.ly/10iUITd

Know Your Meme on the friend zone: knowyourmeme.com/photos/241341-friendzone

Limerence: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Limerence

Bateman's Principle: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bateman's_principle

Assortative mating: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Assortative_mating

Homogamy: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Homogamy_(sociology)

Marshall Fine description of the friend zone: www.huffingtonpost.com/marshall-fine/huffpost-revi…

Scarcity principle and attraction: www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-attraction-doctor…

Escaping the friend zone (includes Ben Franklin effect): www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-attraction-doctor…

Good article on other reasons we desire what we can't have: arabia.msn.com/lifestyle/valentine/16491/why-men-w…

BOWLING ALONE book: bowlingalone.com/

Sad article about friendship decline: usatoday30.usatoday.com/news/nation/2006-06-22-fri…

Cyberbalkanization: www.wisegeek.com/what-is-cyberbalkanization.htm

All Comments (21)
  • @Ray-jg5dj
    "The Science of the Friend Zone" - Vsauce recommended for you
  • came here to know how to escape friendzone and got a lesson on how important friendship is
  • Crush: No, we're just friends. [V-Sauce music kicks in] *Or are we?*
  • @vx8093
    when you can't afford a therapist
  • I forgot where I heard it, but the funniest thing I ever heard was a guy saying, "Dude, I'm so deep in the friendzone that I've met her boyfriend's parents."
  • @_Infocars
    The fact that you presented this 9 years ago & this holds very true in 2022
  • @Tiernan422
    Michael as a kid Girl: I just wanna be friends Michael: well actually...
  • @hastley64
    "how did you guys get married?" "yeah he used the Ben Franklin effect on me"
  • "Bateman's Principle" Uh oh "Named after Angus Bateman" Hoo boy, dodged a bullet there.
  • @kopiro
    It’s incredible how Vsauce videos from 9 years ago still looks like 2022 videos; the quality of the video and the density of the content aged very well.
  • "video title* reccomended for you gonna need some ice for that burn
  • @AquaSkye
    why does all vsauce videos look like they were made in 2018 even if it was actually made in 2012 or 2013? like damn, that quality
  • @kierenmoore3236
    Wow, I actually feel pretty great now about being friend-zoned … Thank you, Vsauce, for stretching my self-delusion to even greater heights.
  • @millerrepin4452
    I really like that recontextualization at the end. Where friend zone isn't a knock down but instead an outside 3rd party that can give you insight on yourself. This can give step ahead of finding a mate as you may finally realize who is really compatible with you rather than who think is.
  • @Monipm54
    Vsauce: makes a video about beds Vsauce at the end of the video: "And that is how nuclear fusion is created"
  • @zedankhan6123
    "The Science Of The Friend Zone" Me : You know , I am something of a scientist myself