HOW OUR FRIENDSHIP ENDED, HOW MUCH I MAKE A MONTH, building our home? My DAD! Get Ready With Me🤗

When it comes to friendships I'm very good at walking away if my mental health is disturbed, as women we are each other's enemies, we put each other down we don't know how to fix each other's crown, not everyone is meant to be in every chapter of your life, find peace in that and you will never get hurt,

My mom is a single mother too...I know the man who fathered me,I also know his other kids...Not a day in my life have i ever called him dad or daddy...All I can say is...I'm content with my lovely moms' love...she is my everything♥

Tip on house hunting: House hunt on a Sunday to know if there are any loud churches nearby and also during this rainy season if you search for houses you'll be able to assess whether the area is prone to flooding, if the roads flood during the rains or if the houses are built on riparian land to avoid instances of rivers bursting their banks and flooding into the compound or house. All the best!

I'm a low maintenance friend and so I don't (naturally) overstretch myself to do soo much for anyone. If my dynamics don't work with one friend, I'll gladly let go. Yaani tusipeane stress na pressure jamani. Alafu the dad issue, girl just let him be, wacha aishi vile alichoose. If he was interested ( which he should) angekutafuta. But he is not. Respect his decision. Let him be 🤍

I totally resonate with your experience around friendships. I was in the same shoes as you; people pleasing and it felt exhausting after a while. I would show up for her but she never did for me. I had to let it go after she disappointed me more than I could handle. It was so liberating.

I have a mixed reaction about that topic of looking for dad ,my mom she is a single mom too what we went through after separation yoooooh !😢 I just decided to respect my mom becz she didn't leave us

My mum died dad remarried and he became so violent he is a narcist he chased us away but God is faithful we are okay hustling

I love how self-aware you are,this is such a beautiful thing.

Everyone's journey is different, what you are looking for is closure, go expecting any outcome, but leave with the peace that you tried before it was too late, (the dad issue)

Hey girrl❤ First about moving, it's okay to explore various things before you permanently settle for a specific thing,go get that new apartment,two if i was in your situation I'd go inquire more about my dad but before you do that meditate and pray about it first, with all that said keep doing the great job,be consistent on your platforms and bag more money,and may we be released from the shackles of people pleasing ❤

If it were me, I would definitely look for my runaway dad. Even if he ends up still denying to be part of my life I will be contented and at peace to know that I did what I could do to have a relationship with him but he's the problem not me. At least I would have answers. I feel like it's way better to know. So yes Nairofey, go find your father. If he agrees to be part of your life then you might find the missing pieces of the puzzle of what happened. If he doesn't want anything to do with you then you'll live the rest of your life with no regret coz you will have already know that you are not the problem and he's just another deadbeat.

Hi dear!I've been watching you for some time now and just wanted to let you know I'm very proud of you!you're my daughter's agemate but i like how determined you are to achieve your goals...may God bless and protect you always!

I'm a home owner and we built. Reason being building will not come with the pressure to clear money owed in the process but I would definitely buy a home in the very near future. Whichever way, it's you to decide but if you get bored easily, please buy. It's easy to let go of such a house, no attachments at all.

I've always had a calling to content creation but even recording on my phone is impossible due to the quality and due to financial struggle that's a dream that I've just kept aside

This has been such a timely vlog for me. Thanks so much

I have been here since then and have gone around the world with you.have seen you cry and happy at the same time.but its growth.

Abit late ...karibu niteguke mguu nikija hapa Kwa Nairofey...big up babygirl.....extend your prayers to some of us ...I am drained

Nairofey you are such an inspiration what a young soul with so much at hand be blessed I always looking forward to new videos ❤

Yes ,Nairofey i would look for him in order to get clarity to some of the questions i have always asked myself so go for it..Its a good idea❤❤

You have really grown from the last time I saw your videos. Its only up from here.