72 - Chasing Unavailable Love and Unpacking Idealized Relationships with Matthew Hussey

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Published 2024-04-26
Matthew Hussey and Sabrina delve deep into the complex world of love and relationships. Join us as Matthew Hussey, renowned relationship coach and author of "Love Life," shares invaluable insights on the pitfalls of cherishing potential over reality in romantic pursuits.

Hear Sabrina open up about the personal journey that led her to understand the futility of chasing after the unavailable, and discover how tough conversations became the pivotal tool for recognizing genuine reciprocity in her relationships.

Our conversation navigates through the intriguing concept of "living in the blue" within text message exchanges, signifying the balance of effort in communication. Matthew bravely parallels chronic physical pain with the emotional toll of being single, leading to a candid discussion about the pursuit of happiness, whether alone or with a partner.

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All Comments (16)
  • @ibekristen
    the contrast between you and matthew’s energies is so cool to see. i’ve been a follower of matthew for a long time but i’m so happy i came across your content. i loooove your straightforward no nonsense personality sabrina! love this episode!
  • @flyingmama3751
    Love! Just started dating again after coming out of an 18 year marriage and I never knew I was anxious until I came out here. It’s definitely been a learning experience!
  • @alyssajune5747
    This is probably my favorite episode so far!! Thank you so much for this podcast ❤🙏🏽
  • @shirleylo13
    Hi Sabrina! Thank you for your videos on YouTube and tiktok! It really helped me distinguish what’s more important - the texting versus the actions that he takes, you helped me feel more reassured in myself and communicate better❣️
  • @chanstoned
    You both are amazing - Love your perspectives on life! This was seriously so helpful after experiencing the end to a situationship in the past month
  • @circlesthesun
    I've used several of your insights in my 9 month relationship. I paid attention to the unfavorable patterns. We had those conversations but I needed to make a decision.
  • @viviguerra100
    ❤ you both. You 2 are helping me a lot with my breakup 😢 yall are the best
  • Dealing with this right now! It’s awful! Love Matthew!! So glad to see him on your show- love you both!!!
  • @adelaideo7417
    Why don’t you have more subscribers?! I’ve gotten so much wisdom from your advice! Thank you!!! ❤ I wonder if you can also talk about why we do the things we do ie., self sabotage and focusing on fixing/healing ourselves
  • @mzunipeg67
    So can relate, followed both for a while. Loved this podcast.
  • @ecalvill0
    Love the motto. I'm happy enough and for now.
  • @Boonie2727
    Chasing emotionally unavailable people is my unfortunate default.. Im working on it