Would You Choose Me Over Having Kids? | Eating With My Ex: Faye and Sade

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Published 2017-07-31

Jealousy, arguments and children - Faye & Sade had some fundamental issues in their relationship. Can they overcome them and give things another go?

This is the sixth episode in a new ten part series of Eating With My Ex where former couples meet up for dinner and have to answer brutally honest questions about where their relationship went wrong. Is this going to be super-awkward or is there still a spark?
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All Comments (21)

@lasercat3598 6 years ago

I feel like people need to talk more instead of instantly breaking up when something goes wrong
@AllieinSK 4 years ago

You're not a difficult person to be with you're a difficult person to argue with. Emotional maturity right there.
@sma4o1 6 years ago

Would you choose me over having kids? I would choose you because the reason to have a kid is to have it with you...to have a family with you... awwwwww commonnnnn my emo heart rn
@ithinkimjas3565 4 years ago

I bet half these couples aren’t even broken up, they just want the free food.
@Dizzyallaround 6 years ago

Awwww my heart!!! One that actually resulted in them getting back together! YES
@cammie4923 6 years ago

Stop it you're making me feel again
@zovuyosijadu7298 4 years ago

South African 90s kids know Shade😁
@leemonakhisi1029 4 years ago

Haibo. We've lost Sade 🙆🏽‍♀️🙆🏽‍♀️ 🤣 🤣. Even the accent
@user-bp2bc9ek8y 6 years ago

My grandfather gave me the most powerful advise. He said the one who apologize is consider the more ethical and powerful person, apologizing is not easy but it is the best way to cure wounds.
@briannaholmes8156 6 years ago

When she said she only wanted kids to have a family with Sade I literally cried. Soooooooo sweet ♥♥♥
@marghe2116 4 years ago

Their connection is so so so beautiful and genuine. The love they show even when they're just looking at each other is what makes me come back to this interview every now and then.
@jrose9755 4 years ago

Me, a straight male, crying over this incredibly powerful moment! All the best ladies; I hope you've made up!
@pt8793 6 years ago

wait.. I grew up watching Sade on Yotv,SABC 1😱😁 .Any fellow South Africans?
@ValerieAbena 6 years ago

When one wants a child and one doesn't that spells bad news
@SCAVULLO 5 years ago

I cried when they went about the “her over children” And I’m a guy.
@Klapaocious77 4 years ago

The way she said “If you’ll have me back” at 6:04 is so charming! My heart feels full. ❤️
@1986shereen 6 years ago

The reason i want kids is because i want it with u.i hope they get back together
@cloudedzeus 6 years ago

3:13 when her eyes lit up 😍😍
@SoulFullOfMusic81 4 years ago

I would never be able to eat, while having this heavy conversation.
@MmmMulholland 5 years ago

YES, absolutely ditch someone if they do not want the same things as you. No matter what. Take it from someone who was in a 15 year relationship from 20-35 and has nothing to show for it but debt and dying ovaries. You can be 100% in love with them and they can be a beautiful person as wonderful to be with etc, but trust me - IF 👏 YOU 👏 DON’T 👏 WANT 👏 THE 👏 SAME 👏 THINGS 👏 IT 👏 IS 👏 A 👏 MISTAKE 👏 TO 🤝 CARRY 👏 ON. End of. Don’t compromise on the things important to you. EVER. You will be left with animosity that will grow into anger and it will end anyway. You may be left with nothing but rotting ovaries, just like me.