Jake Banfield - Boys Don't Cry (Official Music Video)

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Published 2023-06-03
"It's called boys don't cry, but just know this song is for anyone who feels this way and who goes through anxiety or deals with depression or any type of mental health. Know it's okay to cry and speak up and reach out to someone." - Jake Banfield


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Produced by: Jason Walker
Written by: Jake Banfield, Jason Walker
Video by: Garrett Keafer (@gkeafer)

LYRICS:
VERSE 1:
I've been starting to lose control
I swear I can fix anything
Anything, but me
I've been putting my heart thru hell
And I don’t want to think about anything
Anything, but me

PRE:
Just give me time
I’ve been running from my mind
Need a second for my soul
Let it go
And I tried
Keepin' all of this inside
But the cracks they start to show
And I’ve been told

HOOK:
Boys don’t cry
But damn I need a shoulder
I’d be lying
If I said I don’t
Sometimes I’m the one that needs a little holding
If boys don’t cry
Where are these tears supposed to go?
Where are these tears supposed to go?

V2:
I’ve been trying to find that light
But darkness just keeps finding me
Blinding me from what’s real

PRE:
Just give me time
I’ve been running from my mind
Need a second for my soul
Let it go
And I tried
Keepin' all of this inside
But the cracks they start to show
And I’ve been told

HOOK:
Boys don’t cry
But damn I need a shoulder
I’d be lying
If I said I don’t
Sometimes I’m the one that needs a little holding
If boy’s don’t cry
Where are these tears supposed to go?
Where are these tears supposed to go?

CLOSING HOOK:
Boys don’t cry
But damn I need a shoulder
I’d be lying
If I said I don’t
Sometimes I’m the one that needs a little holding
If boy’s don’t cry
Where are these tears supposed to go
Where are these tears supposed to go

All Comments (21)
  • I’ve buried a lot of friends and family with no tears, but holding the box with my baby boy in it hit me in a way I’d never felt before. Thanks for the song👏
  • Everyday I struggle to stay alive. My kids are the only reason I'm still here. But everyday it gets harder to stay strong for them. Thank you for this song. I appreciate you and anyone reading this comment. We got to stay strong!
  • @Wolfsta
    "We didn't realize we were making memories, we were just having fun."
  • @bl1506
    To everyone reading here, I pray that God restore everything you lost and the pain you went through this year. Dont give up or lose hope. The devil is a liar. 2024 is your comeback season. May you be blessed and divinely protected ❤
  • I have no one to reach out to. My mom died, my dad's a drunk and I don't speak to my brothers, we have no bond and weren't raised together. I have no life partner. I can't make friends. Never had kids. Cheers to anyone else struggling, we'll make it.
  • @yekster1382
    My dad passed away in August and I haven't had a shoulder to cry on. I had to remain strong for everyone around me especially my mom. I wish I wasn't alone
  • @MuddyFarmer75
    As a man that almost ended it all last year thank you for this song says so much what goes on in our head
  • Baby you have to heal your soul. Don't keep it inside! I raised two boys that I didn't have. I gave them a Mom and plenty of love. It is ok not to be ok. It's ok to cry!! 😭 I love you son 🤗
  • @adamjeske133
    This song hits me hard even listening to it for the first time. Being a volunteer firefighter of 18 years and a 911 dispatcher of the last 6 years plus my family's military background - these industries condition us to "let it go and move on to the next" so that's what we do. Then recently when it is encouraged to talk things out, people don't realize how much we have held in for so long. I personally suffer from anxiety, depression and PTSD and have just buried it rather than talking about what bothers me. It is a struggle every day to just wake up and get ready for the day... but I do it because nobody else will do it for me. Men and women alike, you are not alone and it is okay to not be okay. If you ever feel any type of way, do not be afraid to reach out. If you bury it for too long, eventually it's going to destroy you from the inside out to the point everything you have buried will cause those who care to bury you. Let go of the pride, the stigma is over. #youhaveavoice #youmatter #youarenotalone
  • @aprilnoel4826
    "Where are these tears supposed to go? " That just sent tears down my cheeks .This is the most beautiful song I've heard in a very long time 💖😢..Hold those boys(Every Loved One) tight love them with all you have be that shoulder
  • "I keep trying to find that light but darkness keep darkness just keeps blinding me from what's right" thats great stuff. Thank you Praise Jesus Hallelujah 🙏❤
  • I listen to this everyday because all I feel is like I am just a person who no one wants around and this song is everything that I need in life so thanks
  • @OriOri-dn3iu
    I think your vulnerability is incredible. I think youve helped millions of people across the world struggling / suffering with these same exact problems. My soul thanks yours. And i pray that you should feel better.
  • @triciaduke4893
    Let’s start a prayer chain and pray our men return To God and provide and protect women and become to lead of the household and lean on Christ and that women return to women who are able to be cared for and in the home to care for the kids… that the devil drops breaking family and leaving isn’t normal anymore normalize STAYING AND LETTING NO MAN TEAR APART WHAT GOD YOKES TOGETHER AND LET MARRIAGE BE NORMAL AGAIN!!! The forefront of goals in Christian life!!!
  • I always told my son that it’s okay to cry. It makes you a better man. Beautiful song and very touching. ❤️🙏
  • @exoghost2382
    I’ve got a baby on the way with a girlfriend who doubts herself. i’ve been working non stop to take care of her and everything that i can do, i sleep less and less every night. i’m supposed to be celebrating my 21st in a few weeks and i can’t find anything to celebrate, my father doesn’t talk to me and i haven’t seen my brothers in months. I keep fighting for her and my child. it’s all i have.
  • @LLLigon72
    Every once in a while, tears break the tipping point.😢 they are the antifreeze for the soul. ❤
  • @mattniday278
    I've never cried so hard until i had to carry my grandpa and uncle just 4 months apart thanks for the song it really hits a spot i built up to keep the tears from coming